Ladies...

[Angelina]

I'm talking about my exs in the past, this isn't a current situation I'm dealing with lol
They know because they've asked if me and my bros called each other everyday and I said "Yes". I was never so pussy-whipped that I'd lie about such inconsequential shit.

Why should they need to worry about my friend's opinions unless they were acting like cunts though? The thought "Oh f*ck, her friends might not like me" has never crossed my mind, nor should it.

This is a random question, aren't guys a little protective/secretive about girls they are serious about? Are you quick to introduce a girl you want to marry to your boys, well before your fam has met her?

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

maybe the insecurity comes from how friends can influence you? so if a friend dislikes the partner for a valid or arbitrary reason that friend will tell you about it and you can potentially see your partner in a different way.

Especially considering if you are all close friends. That can provoke anxiety within the partner so they’ll have to try hard to be on their best behavior

That's so fucking pathetic wallahi. The fact that they need an external factor to pressure them into being a good spouse.

Your friend, and I mean real friends, want the best for you so they wouldn't f*ck with a relationships that's good for you. Well as least that's the case in my circle.

 

[Hue_Man]

no women would resist the 2 men on my profile pic hhhhhhhh....

 

[Molotoff]

Women that are afraid that their partners friends will make them think differently about them and see them from another perspective have serious issues with themselves.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

This is a random question, aren't guys a little protective/secretive about girls they are serious about? Are you quick to introduce a girl you want to marry to your boys, well before your fam has met her?

People throw the word "friend" around arbitrarily wallahi. From people I'm only cool with on a surface level, yes I would be secretive, but from my friends? Not one fucking bit.

I want them to thoroughly vet her, as I'd expect her friends to do with me. I want a flow-charts and excel spreadsheets of what they think of her. Their opinion carries A LOT of weight and vice versa.
I might be too infatuated to spot an obvious flaw, that's where my bros pick up the slack and highlight all the shit that warrants concern.

But if she's a decent person, they'll legit take her side and brow-beat me for acting like a c*nt. It goes both ways.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Women that are afraid that their partners friends will make them think differently about them and see them from another perspective have serious issues with themselves.

I think that's what it boils down to wallahi. Perceptive. If it's just the two of you, any situation can be be manipulated. Add a little sex in there for good measure and all of a sudden you're in the wrong 90% of the time lol

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[inflorescence]

That's so fucking pathetic wallahi. The fact that they need an external factor to pressure them into being a good spouse.

Your friend, and I mean real friends, want the best for you so they wouldn't f*ck with a relationships that's good for you. Well as least that's the case in my circle.

They may already be good spouses before the pressure but the added pressure makes them overcompensate and try too hard.

Which backfires on them because insecurity isn’t a cute look.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

They may already be good spouses before the pressure but the added pressure makes them overcompensate and try too hard.

Which backfires on them because insecurity isn’t a cute look.

Nah, if they were good spouses they wouldn't be so preoccupied about such trivial shit and they'd put in the effort because they loved you, not out of fear of judgement lol

They'd also understand that the friends you've had for over a decade would only want the best for you.

 

[Basic]

Why do some of you get really weird/annoyed/insecure/cunty when a guy you're seeing has friends he's incredibly close to?

I've known my two of bestbro for nearly 15, we're practically brothers at this point wallahi.
Some of their girlfriends, and mine, always get all insecure about how close we all were.
A few even said "I was really worried about you and X not liking me" verbatim. It's so fucking jarring.

Are they uncomfortable by how much weigh their friend's opinions carries or is it something else?

Are these people Somali because this doesn’t sound like something we’d do.

 

[Desert Flower]

People throw the word "friend" around arbitrarily wallahi. From people I'm only cool with on a surface level, yes I would be secretive, but from my friends? Not one fucking bit.

I want them to thoroughly vet her, as I'd expect her friends to do with me. I want a flow-charts and excel spreadsheets of what they think of her. Their opinion carries A LOT of weight and vice versa.
I might be too infatuated to spot an obvious flaw, that's where my bros pick up the slack and highlight all the shit that warrants concern.

But if she's a decent person, they'll legit take her side and brow-beat me for acting like a c*nt. It goes both ways.

Really? You’d think if a man knows he has a catch on his hands, he’d keep her hidden until he’s secured her for marriage, no? Men are territorial.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Are these people Somali because this doesn’t sound like something we’d do.

Rarely, but they're definitely not immune from it.

Really? You’d think if a man knows he has a catch on his hands, he’d keep her hidden until he’s secured her for marriage, no? Men are territorial.

That's what's beautiful about real and genuine friendship, all that "territorial" sneaky, "what if they want to f*ck her" shit flies out of the window. We'd probably shake our friend's hand and wish him a happy and fruitful marriage.

Lusting after my bros misuses would be incestuous.

 

[Basic]

Rarely, but they're definitely not immune from it.

That's what's beautiful about real and genuine friendship, all that "territorial" sneaky, "what if they want to f*ck her" shit flies out of the window. We'd probably shake our friend's hand and wish him a happy and fruitful marriage.

Lusting after my bros misuses would be incestuous.

I had a feeling Nak. From the looks of it so did most of the others on this thread. The concept of what you are describing sounds quite foreign to us but interesting never the less.

 

[HiraanBorn]

A brother has to have some own time, some space. A time to kick back with his friends. Reminisce, talk about and do men stuff.

Preferably once a week or twice a month. For his mental wellbeing.

I agree with everything you said except for the last statement, once a week or twice a month is not enough.

It should be at least twice a day maybe more, in fact, I'd say visit your wife only once a week or month.

 

[Material]

bros before hoes

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I had a feeling Nak. From the looks of it so did most of the others on this thread. The concept of what you are describing sounds quite foreign to us but interesting never the less.

It's a thing with Somalis as well, but I was hesitant to speak on it because I don't have that much first hand experience

 

[Lostbox]

I've got with the opposite problems. I don't like some of my bros wives/fiancees girlfriends.

One of my close friend had put a ring in a women that was trouble since we can remember. Yet, nothing we say will convince him

 

[AbdiS]

SSpot Xalimo vs Faraax Jihad is coming back once again folks.

Finally, the generals were getting incredibly boring.

Who's going to be the mujjaahiid for the Faraxs?

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

SSpot Xalimo vs Faraax Jihad is coming back once again folks.

Finally, the generals were getting incredibly were getting boring.

Who's going to be the mujjaahiid for the Faraxs?

TIE ME TO A MISSILE AND FIRE IT AT THE WOMEN'S SECTION

 

[inflorescence]

SSpot Xalimo vs Faraax Jihad is coming back once again folks.

Finally, the generals were getting incredibly boring.

Who's going to be the mujjaahiid for the Faraxs?

where is the gender war? This thread in particular is very mild

 

[Naa]

where is the gender war? This thread in particular is very mild

They just want problems.

kinda gay