@Duke of Harshaw i get that, im saying hypothetically that if u aint got a clean record then ur gonna have to compromise on ur "ideal"
A somali woman from the west who is not chaste is acceptable for marriage. However though what is unacceptable is a somali woman that has been passed around from friend to friend or just has a reputation for not having a discrete sex life so that when the time for marriage arrives then it won't be embarrassing for the man that is seeking her hand in marriage.
What about women that are dumb enough to take pictures of their naked body and videos
and sent it to various guys. Do you think they can be wifey material.
Now that's a bit of a problem. If the chick in question was sending nudes or allowing herself to be recorded by a guy she is in a relationship with then she has a justifiable excuse.
But if she leaves evidence behind for guy that is playing with her then no she doesn't deserve a pass.
This all depends on the attractiveness of the chick though. The more attractive she is then the more leniency she deserves if she keeps her Sex life discrete and out of the public eye
You can't keep videos/pictures that are in other people's hands discrete though. Everyone makes mistakes but leaving behind
huge evidence is like leaving yourself at the mercy of others Lol.
I was nodding with you until I read the bolded part. Ciyaal suuq.com lol