Love proportion between couples: Advice to the young Faraxs

[Abdalla]

FaraxNation, if you want a successful and healthy relationship, the girl should like you more than you like her. The difference shouldn't be too big though. 55-45 ratio is ideal, 60-40 is the limit. If she like way more than you like her, you might abuse her mentally (or physically if you're ogaden)

If the guy likes the girl more, even by a mere percentage, she will abuse you. I've never seen a dignified relationship wherein the guy likes her more. Those relationships exist, but it's not dignified nor honorable. Don't put yourself in that position.

In females, the low hanging fruits are much better than the ones that play hard to get.

 

[nine]

FaraxNation, if you want a successful and healthy relationship, the girl should like you more than you like her. The difference shouldn't be too big though. 55-45 ratio is ideal, 60-40 is the limit. If she like way more than you like her, you might abuse her mentally (or physically if you're ogaden)

If the guy likes the girl more, even by a mere percentage, she will abuse you. I've never seen a dignified relationship wherein the guy likes her more. Those relationships exist, but it's not dignified nor honorable. Don't put yourself in that position.

In females, the low hanging fruits are much better than the ones that play hard to get.

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[Finesse]

No.

A man should love more because women are innately more caring and loyal to their partner.

How many women have you seen that have abandoned their sick husband? Their sterile husband?

Compare that to the countless men who cannot even tolerate their wife having the flu.

Even if a woman doesn't love a man, she can still be attached to a man because of the hormones that are released during intercourse.

Showing love is a strength, not a weakness.

When you have daughters, you will want her to be loved and protected.

 

[VixR]

Completely opposite to what works in reality.

He has to be afraid to lose you to make it worthwhile, and ideally you should feel something towards him in return, or it wouldn’t matter that he does.

I know a girl who loves her husband more. She got some kind of autoimmune disease that was triggered by a cold, and now she spends time in a wheelchair. The saddest relationship I’ve ever observed, even before her illness. She had to drop out of our class.

Naturally, a man who pursues you actively and shows devotion has to like you more. It’s rigged in that way, so unless you’re pursuing women you don’t like, you’ll like them more despite yourself.

The problem occurs when women push men into loving/marrying them who don’t love them, and was just enough a “pick-me” to make his settling with her a no-brainer/safe, but it’ll bite her in the end when his apathy surfaces just when you needed him to care.

 

[Bohol]

Wise advice. Relationships where the guy likes the woman more is usually the type that end up in affairs, were's girls that like you more are loyal asf and rarely cheat.

 

[NotMyL]

How about the one where we both equally love and respect each other?


Waiting for the that doesn’t exist reply

 

[Jaydaan]

I fully agree. Sadly most men don't know this as they don't learn from previous generations and why they kept their marriages in tact.

 

[Yonis]

Truth.

Think about it in terms of Naruto;

Naruto likes Sakura more than Sakura likes Naruto -------> Naruto gets abused.

Sakura likes Sasuke more than Sasuke likes Sakura ---> Sakura gets abused

Hinata likes Naruto more than Naruto likes Hinata --> Naruto settles with Hinata.

Moral of the story, whoever likes the other person less, in a relationship that person is in a position to abuse or settle with the other person and holds all the power.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Truth.

Think about it in terms of Naruto;

Naruto likes Sakura more than Sakura likes Naruto -------> Naruto gets abused.

Sakura likes Sasuke more than Sasuke likes Sakura ---> Sakura gets abused

Hinata likes Naruto more than Naruto likes Hinata --> Naruto settles with Hinata.

Moral of the story, whoever likes the other person less, in a relationship that person is in a position to abuse or settle with the other person and holds all the power.

Very educational sxb

 

[Macalin M]

Truth.

Think about it in terms of Naruto;

Naruto likes Sakura more than Sakura likes Naruto -------> Naruto gets abused.

Sakura likes Sasuke more than Sasuke likes Sakura ---> Sakura gets abused

Hinata likes Naruto more than Naruto likes Hinata --> Naruto settles with Hinata.

Moral of the story, whoever likes the other person less, in a relationship that person is in a position to abuse or settle with the other person and holds all the power.

This is how I learnt the game too sxb

ma nigga Naruto

 

[Mckenzie]

Women love emotionally unavailable men, someone who tolerates them rather than obsesses with them whereas men love women who worship the ground they walk on. That's just how the cookie crumbles.

 

[Basra]

FaraxNation, if you want a successful and healthy relationship, the girl should like you more than you like her. The difference shouldn't be too big though. 55-45 ratio is ideal, 60-40 is the limit. If she like way more than you like her, you might abuse her mentally (or physically if you're ogaden)

If the guy likes the girl more, even by a mere percentage, she will abuse you. I've never seen a dignified relationship wherein the guy likes her more. Those relationships exist, but it's not dignified nor honorable. Don't put yourself in that position.

In females, the low hanging fruits are much better than the ones that play hard to get.

I disagree. The girl should like the boy more. The boy should not be clingy like u Abdalla


Overall, a successful marriage is if the man is emotionally unavailable and busy with his life, and provides financially well for his family

 

[IBRAHIM.]

How about the one where we both equally love and respect each other?


Waiting for the that doesn’t exist reply

It doesn't exist coz men and women love different. Men love idealistically while women love opportunistically. Men are the real romantics not women.

 

[Basra]

It doesn't exist coz men and women love different. Men love idealistically while women love opportunistically. Men are the real romantics not women.

spoken like an incel, thats why u r single haaji

 

[Guardafui]

No.

A man should love more because women are innately more caring and loyal to their partner.

How many women have you seen that have abandoned their sick husband? Their sterile husband?

Compare that to the countless men who cannot even tolerate their wife having the flu.

Even if a woman doesn't love a man, she can still be attached to a man because of the hormones that are released during intercourse.

Showing love is a strength, not a weakness.

When you have daughters, you will want her to be loved and protected.

100% agree. I’ve seen countless marriages where the woman loved the man way more and regrets later in life. Men and their fragile ego and they will abuse you. Never love or hate someone too much it’s even islamically advised just be in the middle saves you a lot of headache.

 

[Basra]

100% agree. I’ve seen countless marriages where the woman loved the man way more and regrets later in life. Men and their fragile ego and they will abuse you. Never love or hate someone too much it’s even islamically advised just be in the middle saves you a lot of headache.

I agree. Approach everything in life in moderation.

 

[Kanini]

Truth.

Think about it in terms of Naruto;

Naruto likes Sakura more than Sakura likes Naruto -------> Naruto gets abused.

Sakura likes Sasuke more than Sasuke likes Sakura ---> Sakura gets abused

Hinata likes Naruto more than Naruto likes Hinata --> Naruto settles with Hinata.

Moral of the story, whoever likes the other person less, in a relationship that person is in a position to abuse or settle with the other person and holds all the power.

Hell no. That whole triangle was depressing. I'm looking for a Temari = Shikamaru relationship

 

[NotMyL]

It doesn't exist coz men and women love different. Men love idealistically while women love opportunistically. Men are the real romantics not women.

Good to know, I happen to be in a relationship where I know I’m loved as much as I love him but carry on with your calacaal.

 

[IBRAHIM.]

Good to know, I happen to be in a relationship where I know I’m loved as much as I love him but carry on with your calacaal.

okay let me ask u, why do u love your husband?
and why does he love u?

 

[IBRAHIM.]

spoken like an incel, thats why u r single haaji

Its facts and u know it.