Males on Sspot and demeaning language towards women.

[Hodan from HR]

OP is very naive but I don’t blame her. She is a woman so she doesn’t know what men do when they’re not around. Men talk like that with other men long before exist, for centuries. The dominance and submission sex you talk about is an ancient fantasy most men dream about because it’s in our instinct. Even the devout ones do but in PG rated manner.

Nothing grinds my gears than hearing someone say it’s wrong for men to use their fantasies on their wives and they must stick to the same old lame 2 minutes missionary with sheets covered and lights off.

OP is not advocating for "2 minute missionary with sheets covered lights off" as you put it. This idea that you have to injure a woman's sense of self-pride and physically hurt her for sex to be considered good that is promoted in , is what she is addressing.

It's a normal, healthy and very natural to want to pleasure and actually enjoy sex with the person you are with. is promoting violence and humiliation that are eventually damaging to the spirit.

There is a reason masochism is considered a sexual disorder. Y'all need therapy with your trauma bonding outlook on sex.

 

[Basra]

OP is not advocating for "2 minute missionary with sheets covered lights off" as you put it. This idea that you have to injure a woman's sense of self-pride and physically hurt her for sex to be considered good that is promoted in , is what she is addressing.

It's a normal, healthy and very natural to want to pleasure and actually enjoy sex with the person you are with. is promoting violence and humiliation that are eventually damaging to the spirit.

There is a reason masochism is considered a sexual disorder. Y'all need therapy with your trauma bonding outlook on sex.