Marriage scares me

[Parailia somalensis]

Do you honestly think someone would throw away their virginity, deen/dhaqan just to play house? And for diddly-squat. Marriage is always the prefered choice to cohabitation and more financially enriching. Just be cautious of who you settle down with. Problem solved.

More than 60% of western Somali aren’t virgins. What makes you so special when majority are playing house already?

 

[Xasusi]

This guys posts are seriously wack

 

[sambuusi]

someone might be here for a fun time, not a long time
tell me if i'm right

 

[hussein]

Committing to someone till death is a very strange concept to me. It seems so jaded and obsolete but people still continue to get married. Why get married when we can live together and have a great sex life?

Marriage isn’t all about sex

 

[Parailia somalensis]

This guys posts are seriously wack

Differing opinions are always appreciated and not condemned in my threads.

 

[Sophisticate]

More than 60% of western Somali aren’t virgins. What makes you so special when majority are playing house already?

Source of the stat please.

Playing house implies living together. Even those who engage in extramartial relations don't do that.

I've noticed mostly saqajaans often assume everyone suffers from the same level of willpower they have.

 

[Xasusi]

Source of the stat please.

Playing house implies living together. Even those who engage in extramartial relations don't do that.

I've noticed mostly saqajaans often assume everyone suffers from the same level of willpower they have.

They assume everyone drinks and fornicates. They know it's not true but use it to cope.

 

[Sophisticate]

They assume everyone drinks and fornicates. They know it's not true but use it to cope.

They also assume everyone is a hypocrite, too.

 

[Bohol]

Become a Shia it will be easily solved, they have something called Nikah Mutah (short term contract marriages). You can marry and divorce in the same day, rinse and repeat. I might become a Shia as well. Both Nikah Mutah (Shia) and Nikah Misyar (Wabahi sect) are great options for people who don't want to be tied down forever.

Nikah mut'ah - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

Misyar marriage - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

 

[Hybrid()]

More than 60% of western Somali aren’t virgins. What makes you so special when majority are playing house already?

lol not true at all. Majority of Western somalis especially the guys are closeted virgins who are introverted and have an identity crisis. I came across many introverted Western somalis and it was quiet surprising to me because it's very unusual for somalis to be introverted back home.

 

[Parailia somalensis]

They assume everyone drinks and fornicates. They know it's not true but use it to cope.

The average Somali Canadian who was raised in the Canada at one time or another has consumed alcoholic beverages. Both genders drink either occasionally or are addicted to the sharab. Fornication is even out of the question because even the most pious Somali Muslim Is whoring out in other major cities out of their city.
If you think I’m exaggerating just take a drive downtown after 2am and you will see all the former pious Muslim’s either passed out or being dragged around by mates.

 

[Xasusi]

The average Somali Canadian who was raised in the Canada at one time or another has consumed alcoholic beverages. Both genders drink either occasionally or are addicted to the sharab. Fornication is even out of the question because even the most pious Somali Muslim Is whoring out in other major cities out of their city.
If you think I’m exaggerating just take a drive downtown after 2am and you will see all the former pious Muslim’s either passed out or being dragged around by mates.

I have no illusions. I know they do it.

 

[Parailia somalensis]

Become a Shia it will be easily solved, they have something called Nikah Mutah (short term contract marriages). You can marry and divorce in the same day, rinse and repeat. I might become a Shia as well. Both Nikah Mutah (Shia) and Nikah Misyar (Wabahi sect) are great options for people who don't want to be tied down forever.

Nikah mut'ah - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

Misyar marriage - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

I would have but I can’t make the trip to Iraq or Iran to visit the holy shrines.

 

[Phiirso]

lol not true at all. Majority of Western somalis especially the guys are closeted virgins who are introverted and have an identity crisis. I came across many introverted Western somalis and it was quiet surprising to me because it's very unusual for somalis to be introverted back home.

The difference between growing up in a society where they practice loose morality while being of a faith where loose morality is a sin compared to where everyone shares your beliefs, culture, and tongue will make for some identity stricken individuals.