Marrying off someone with mental problems?

[Mercury]

looooooooooooooooooooooooool


That is an extreme example. I have seen extremely feminine somalis who impregnated their wives multiple times

Thats kinda worse cause they Living a lie

 

[Basra]

1 year and just talk in bed lol Its crazy

Its not crazy. Its reality. Family pressure. His mother is probably over whelming.

 

[Basra]

Thats kinda worse cause they Living a lie

But look at it this way. Religiously its NOT A LIE. They are doing the right thing. Homosexuality is a devil work. If they are gay and they over came their gayness and forced themselves to sleep with a woman, kudos to them. Especially to men. Its not a lie in the face of God. Because God does not want you to be with another man or alone.

 

[Leila]

Somalis have this belief that marriage solves all kinds of problems. Very unfair to the other person .

 

[Jaydaan]

1 year and just talk in bed lol Its crazy

I think she must have been really well raised to be so patient. Most women after 1 week would be so ftustrated. I mean 1 or 2 days you can say you sick or have headache. A week at most.....other than that its madness

 

[Arma]

People in Somalia (and Africa in general), need to stop accepting the diasporas: mentally ill and middleaged old farts marrying their daughters, the many criminals hiding from their crimes, and those who have failed in their host countries, coming back and stealing jobs and other forms of lifeblood for the native people.

 

[Apollo]

People in Somalia (and Africa in general), need to stop accepting the diasporas: mentally ill and middleaged old farts marrying their daughters, the many criminals hiding from their crimes, and those who have failed in their host countries, coming back and stealing jobs and other forms of lifeblood for the native people.

The West has largely stopped accepting Somali refugees due to recent societal stability. This is the only way to still boost the Somali population in the West numerically, lmao.

 

[Mercury]

But look at it this way. Religiously its NOT A LIE. They are doing the right thing. Homosexuality is a devil work. If they are gay and they over came their gayness and forced themselves to sleep with a woman, kudos to them. Especially to men. Its not a lie in the face of God. Because God does not want you to be with another man or alone.

They living a secret life maybe they married a woman so people dont get suspicious

 

[Basra]

People in Somalia (and Africa in general), need to stop accepting the diasporas: mentally ill and middleaged old farts marrying their daughters, the many criminals hiding from their crimes, and those who have failed in their host countries, coming back and stealing jobs and other forms of lifeblood for the native people.

Hi Arma...r u fairing okey?

 

[Jaydaan]

The West has largely stopped accepting Somali refugees due to recent societal stability. This is the only way to still boost the Somali population in the West numerically, lmao.

True....but western somalis are wise to it. They go there and make bunch of promise. Once they get it and fly back they say you staying there. My close friend did this and it ended in divorce

 

[Basra]

They living a secret life maybe they married a woman so people dont get suspicious

Mercury

How is it a secret life? U r judging this from a western point of view. U believe homosexuality as a human identity? Correct? And in Islam the concept of homosexuality is not an identity, It is a sin act.

 

[Arma]

Hi Arma...r u fairing okey?

Alhamdulillah Basra. All is well with me. Just been very busy with the move to London and getting ready for a work trip to America, on Tuesday.

 

[Basra]

Alhamdulillah Basra. All is well with me. Just been very busy with the move to London and getting ready for a work trip to America, on Tuesday.

u r not coming to Minnesota r u?

 

[Mercury]

Mercury

How is it a secret life? U r judging this from a western point of view. U believe homosexuality as a human identity? Correct? And in Islam the concept of homosexuality is not an identity, It is a sin act.

Lol Its a big sin even if he has a wife hes still gay

 

[Arma]

u r not coming to Minnesota r u?

No, Florida. Some place called st Petersburg. I would love to go to Minnesota, someday.

 

[Basra]

No, Florida. Some place called st Petersburg. I would love to go to Minnesota, someday.

Ok. Enjoy the Sunshine state!

 

[Mercury]

Somalis have this belief that marriage solves all kinds of problems. Very unfair to the other person .

Exactly!

I know people who been long time unemployed and the parents and relatives save money to get the person married back home believing if he has a wife he Will become responsible and have a job etc

Guess what the wife got pregnant hes talking about when the baby comes Than I Will be motivated to find a job

 

[Muji]

7 men? Are they somalis? These people stay in marriages due to social pressure and keep up appearance. Men cant be bisexuals. Women can......but bisexual men are gay men afraid to come out

We have one here..have you met @Cognitivedissonance

 

[HalimaJ]

Mercury

How is it a secret life? U r judging this from a western point of view. U believe homosexuality as a human identity? Correct? And in Islam the concept of homosexuality is not an identity, It is a sin act.

If a person is asexual or has very low desires, it is completely fine for them to be single, as they will not be able to fulfill the rights of the wife.

 

[HalimaJ]

Parents back home in Somalia really need to be suspicious of Somali westerners trying to marry from back home, especially if the mother is orchestrating everything.

A grown, sane and able bodied man isn't going to have his mother running around organising everything. That is one big giveaway sign.