Yeah, I changed my mind on this. Theres many people with dysfunctional families who turn out to be the best people and wonderful parents. I know men and women who never grew up with proper family figures and they raised their kids well.as long as shes good, why would I lose a potential based on something she can't control?
My family is chaotic (hoyo has myriad of mental illnesses) and some of my male relatives are dysfunctional (drugs, gangs, jailbirds). So I was realistic and aimed for someone with a similar background but it never worked out.
A man from stable background, opposite from my home life, who is structured andboringa rule follower, wants me. He finds my avoidant personality "endearing" and saved me as My Stray Kitten in his phone..
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Congratulations
Did you turn down the PhD guy?