Naah, that's good enough. So your answer is "it depends"Weird...there's a conversation tab but no way to start one. I wonder if the admin ppl can fix that. I'll answer your question though. It really depends on what you are first. Are you a shyer guy or aggressive. Depending on whoever you're hitting on they might be receptive/turned off by one or the other. I know girls that like it when guys take on that "alpha" role and other girls like the more gentle guy. It really depends and it'd be silly to just pick one over the other. But what's your style: gentle, aggressive, or in between?