Modern Nomads: How Much Mehr money is too much

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RICH

The Qadr of Allaah ta’aala is always in our favor.
20k ah LOL. My Hooyo told me kulaha :pachah1:

Meher is a girls right laakin our deen also says that we should not exaggerate and should make things easy. All this “high end talk” and I know my worth is just bullshit. I also don’t get that if the guy earns more, you should get more? Nah man, I can’t take this serious.

The thing @AliUK said about girls asking for a higher meher, because they go to the gym is even more mind blowing :dead:
 

Gadiid

So much depends upon a red wheel barrow.
"Minimum 15-20k"
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You're getting 500 quid and an apple, tf you talking about?
 
These girl are saying ridiculous prices because they haven't met the person they love and cherish. I can bet my left nut, that their mind set will change once they find the farax of their dreams.
 
20k ah LOL. My Hooyo told me kulaha :pachah1:

Meher is a girls right laakin our deen also says that we should not exaggerate and should make things easy. All this “high end talk” and I know my worth is just bullshit. I also don’t get that if the guy earns more, you should get more? Nah man, I can’t take this serious.

The thing @AliUK said about girls asking for a higher meher, because they go to the gym is even more mind blowing :dead:

Girl if imma go through the pain of child
Birth raising these kids until I die

Running a household, holding my man down
Than yes that amount is totally worth it
But it doesn’t have to be all paid up front

:damedamn: I heard child birth is no
Joke - worst pain in the world my cousin
Said
 
You just need to learn how differentiate between them, you can tell when someone is using you for money:gaasdrink: its extremely obvious :dabcasar: meher can be a plot of land, gold, surah from the quran, a house in Somalia,
depends on the guy tbh

Intresting to know how many prefer quran over money :gaasdrink:
 
The girl I am speaking to now actually asked for 20k+ us dollars and I kind feel trapped as she knows a close relative of mines mehr was similar and she knows am more well of than the guy in question alhamdullilah.

If she don't go to Down to max 10k then I am out.
 
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20k ah LOL. My Hooyo told me kulaha :pachah1:

Meher is a girls right laakin our deen also says that we should not exaggerate and should make things easy. All this “high end talk” and I know my worth is just bullshit. I also don’t get that if the guy earns more, you should get more? Nah man, I can’t take this serious.

The thing @AliUK said about girls asking for a higher meher, because they go to the gym is even more mind blowing :dead:
I don't mean they say I go to the gym, give me more money but I mean they go gym to get into better shape so they can demand more money because their body is looking good.
 

RICH

The Qadr of Allaah ta’aala is always in our favor.
I don't mean they say I go to the gym, give me more money but I mean they go gym to get into better shape so they can demand more money because their body is looking good.

Haa waan gartay. It still doesn’t make sense though.
 
Haa waan gartay. It still doesn’t make sense though.

If she has started to go gym and gotten into better shape so she can demand more Mehr. I will give it to you but be prepared to keep up your exercise regime for life because your not allowed to be obese ever and you can be overweight for max 15 months but only if 9 of them months you was carrying my baby.
 

RICH

The Qadr of Allaah ta’aala is always in our favor.
Girl if imma go through the pain of child
Birth raising these kids until I die

Running a household, holding my man down
Than yes that amount is totally worth it
But it doesn’t have to be all paid up front

:damedamn: I heard child birth is no
Joke - worst pain in the world my cousin
Said

LOL

Waa ruunta wallaahi. Giving birth is a lot.

He’s already providing for everything, but I see where you’re coming from. Laakin it’s still a ridiculous amount of money sxb.
 

RICH

The Qadr of Allaah ta’aala is always in our favor.
If she has started to go gym and gotten into better shape so she can demand more Mehr. I will give it to you but be prepared to keep up your exercise regime for life because your not allowed to be obese ever and you can be overweight for max 15 months but only if 9 of them months you was carrying my baby.

Does this only happen in the UK? I don’t see the correlation between being in shape and a high meher. You should always try be in shape (husband and wife) :hillarybiz:

If having a good shape (cause of the gym) was her reason to demand more, then you are allowed to demand that she keeps up with her regime. It’s crazy, but fair enough lol.
 
Does this only happen in the UK? I don’t see the correlation between being in shape and a high meher. You should always try be in shape (husband and wife) :hillarybiz:

If having a good shape (cause of the gym) was her reason to demand more, then you are allowed to demand that she keeps up with her regime. It’s crazy, but fair enough lol.

I ain't sure but a lot of my guys got hit with this tax which is the only way I think to explain it. She was like is was 5k when we started talking, now am in better shape so is 7k.
 

RICH

The Qadr of Allaah ta’aala is always in our favor.
I ain't sure but a lot of my guys got hit with this tax which is the only way I think to explain it. She was like is was 5k when we started talking, now am in better shape so is 7k.

Maybe it’s me, but I will never understand this. Anyways you lost your damn mind too to be dealing with someone who is asking for 20k+ :what1:

Wallaahi I don’t get it. Are you guys not asking yourself why a girl would ask for so much money? Is it only about “self worth” or does she want to secure herself if she gets divorced?
 

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Waa ruunta wallaahi. Giving birth is a lot.

He’s already providing for everything, but I see where you’re coming from. Laakin it’s still a ridiculous amount of money sxb.
:wowsweat: it aint a joke what females go through, saw it for the first time live when my wife gave birth 2 months ago


Hours of rafaad :mjcry:
 

RICH

The Qadr of Allaah ta’aala is always in our favor.
:wowsweat: it aint a joke what females go through, saw it for the first time live when my wife gave birth 2 months ago


Hours of rafaad :mjcry:

Allaahuma baarik! Ameen. Congratulations with your newborn!

Now you know lol. Don’t ever disrespect your own mother or the mother of your child cause they’ve been through a lot of pain for you.
 
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