I'm getting tired of living at home. Its like I have too many responsibility and know one else picking up there slack. How should go about moving ? and how should I structure the conversation of moving out? What will I need from my room ? How do I find cheap apartment ?
Moving out ?
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Get a career, Stay home, stack bread, then buy a condo. You’re wasting money renting. If you have a good relationship with your parents live at home.
The alchemist
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Moving out will not lessen responsibility, bud. But it will make you stronger, and your aptitude grows. No need to move out if you're in your early 20s, IMO.
The thing with life, it does not become easier (in general). You either become stronger and improve/adapt, or you decline gradually.
As they say, don't seek an easy life; seek strength to handle tough ones. Or something along that line.
The thing with life, it does not become easier (in general). You either become stronger and improve/adapt, or you decline gradually.
As they say, don't seek an easy life; seek strength to handle tough ones. Or something along that line.
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Khaem
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What I'm doing until next year
mashallah you already have enough to buy a condo at the uk?
How? Did you have money? Or roommates?
I moved to a new city for studies. First, I started living in a student apartment. No roommate.
Was this a dorm room?
No I had my own place with kitchen and bathroom but very small
How much did you work back then?
I had 2 jobs, but the benefits were that I could choose when to work.
Taintedlove
Shaqo la'an ba kuu heysaata
I need to move out too. My family situation has gotten worse lately and I genuinely can't stand these people. It's suffocating
Im not that committed sxb
I did it because I didn't want to take out a loan, and of course, I got money from the school too so I had more than enough.
You have to live in the middle of nowhere. If you can't do that then you're forced to either share an apartment or even a room with other people.
Khaem
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Can't buy anything yet I'm still a student init but I've got a decent job now since I got a license to work in a specific field part time while going uni. I finish my year next week so I got basically 5 months of straight work then I can move out comfortably in autumn-winter inshallah
I've been thinking the same. My family are nice thankfully but I feel like I cannot grow in this city. I'll never change if I don't leave. But studying at home and saving up feels like the best solution for my future.
If your family are okay and safe for you to stay with, I'd suggest taking some time to bolster your savings. My opinion is that you should have enough for 6 months of rent and and the down-payment. A little extra for emergencies too and a stable job/source of income. This sounds like a good ideal if you have time to plan.
If you need to get out now, secure a job and start looking for shared rooms or bedsits. You may be able to find cheaper. Live cheaply and save as much as possible while young so you can push your savings up as quickly as possible. I hope all goes well for you!
If your family are okay and safe for you to stay with, I'd suggest taking some time to bolster your savings. My opinion is that you should have enough for 6 months of rent and and the down-payment. A little extra for emergencies too and a stable job/source of income. This sounds like a good ideal if you have time to plan.
If you need to get out now, secure a job and start looking for shared rooms or bedsits. You may be able to find cheaper. Live cheaply and save as much as possible while young so you can push your savings up as quickly as possible. I hope all goes well for you!
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