Murtad Xalimo Critises Older Brothers being Protective

[Dibleyy]

Honestly that’s with a lot of older Somali siblings, when they’re parentified because the parent constantly says “I’m tired and old I can’t raise this child anymore” like who told you to have a baby at 42?!

I think sometimes depending on the age gap the sibling can turn abusive because of frustration with the parent, ptsd from their upbringing, and sometimes just because they want a punching bag.

I remember one time my brother asked me if I hit his daughter (my neice), I never hit them violently I only just do a small pat on the hand that doesn’t hurt AT ALL but they usually get emotional about it cause they know their being punished.

Anyway I guess he found out and asked me. I just told him “yes I did” and he asked “why would you do that” and I told him “you used to hit me ten times harder, why is it an issue when it’s your kids” and he stopped the conversation right there and went into his room

They love to put hands on you but god forbid you even pinch their child lol

 

[Lahaine]

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[Gacmeey]

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She is

 

[Barni]

OMG! I love Nasriin, I honestly relate to her so much.

 

[Gacmeey]

OMG! I love Nasriin, I honestly relate to her so much.

What do you like about her?

 

[Barni]

What do you like about her?

She’s a somali ex muslim lesbian like me & not mention the fact our family dynamics (atleast what she shares online) is similar. I love that she is unapologetically outspoken and she has fostered a large community because of it.

 

[cunug3aad]

I don't think that brothers have the right to do that. Parents get the final say. And If the person is grown let them make their own decisions.

I would assume brothers are gonna be more lenient than parents

 

[Gacmeey]

She’s a somali ex muslim lesbian like me & not mention the fact our family dynamics (atleast what she shares online) is similar. I love that she is unapologetically outspoken and she has fostered a large community because of it.

I thought you came back to Islam or am I getting you mixed up with someone else?

 

[Duubpon]

She’s a somali ex muslim lesbian like me & not mention the fact our family dynamics (atleast what she shares online) is similar. I love that she is unapologetically outspoken and she has fostered a large community because of it.

 

[Barni]

I thought you came back to Islam or am I getting you mixed up with someone else?

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[Keep it a boqol]

Her family seems crazy i just watched a tiktok saying she wasn’t allowed to wear her hair down at her home and asked if it was a somali thing??

WTH that’s messed up no wonder her and her bro got the same views.

 

[kamek]

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I remember her saying she has a girlfriend

 

[NidarNidar]

She is lucky she isn't Pakistani or Indian, once you're over 18, it's your life, live it, move out.
It seems like she is milking her personal life for clicks, clout chasing at it's finest.

 

[soulmates]

My older brother was like this. Nigga was more strict and obsessive than my dad. I used to get beat by him for not saying my cashar correctly and he would hit me and force me to change when he considered by abaya too short. Not to even mention the verbal abuse.

I’ll never forget one time nigga locked me and him in his room because when he was picking me up from school a guy gave me back a pencil I let him borrow and said bye to me when I was 14 and he saw. When we got home he beat the shit out of me and called me a wh0r3, b¡tçh, $lüt, etc. While he was beating me he was forcing me to answer if I was a virgin or not (I was and still am) and my parents allowed it like wtf. After 2020 (when I was 16) I stopped talking to him and haven’t talked to him since then even though he’s tried to apologize like f*ck you


His abuse lowkey the reason why I stopped believing.

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Yeah I don’t want any children.

 

[Pizza man]

My older brother was like this. Nigga was more strict and obsessive than my dad. I used to get beat by him for not saying my cashar correctly and he would hit me and force me to change when he considered by abaya too short. Not to even mention the verbal abuse.

I’ll never forget one time nigga locked me and him in his room because when he was picking me up from school a guy gave me back a pencil I let him borrow and said bye to me when I was 14 and he saw. When we got home he beat the shit out of me and called me a wh0r3, b¡tçh, $lüt, etc. While he was beating me he was forcing me to answer if I was a virgin or not (I was and still am) and my parents allowed it like wtf. After 2020 (when I was 16) I stopped talking to him and haven’t talked to him since then even though he’s tried to apologize like f*ck you


His abuse lowkey the reason why I stopped believing.

How old is he? I can't fathom a grown ass man going ape crazy over small stuff like this

 

[soulmates]

How old is he? I can't fathom a grown ass man going ape crazy over small stuff like this

He’s 8 years older than me. It got bad when I was 12-16. So he was 20-24 verbally and physically abusing me. It was so bad . I was cutting myself, too depressed to do my school work so I was failing classes, and cried everyday. But then covid it stopped cause he moved out. Now he’s 28 tryna apologize but that door is closed forever. He cried when I didn’t let him come to my high school graduation but I didn’t give a f*ck.

 

[Pizza man]

He’s 8 years older than me. It got bad when I was 12-16. So he was 20-24 verbally and physically abusing me. It was so bad . I was cutting myself, too depressed to do my school work so I was failing classes, and cried everyday. But then covid it stopped cause he moved out. Now he’s 28 tryna apologize but that door is closed forever. He cried when I didn’t let him come to my high school graduation but I didn’t give a f*ck.

Subxanallah, abusing your own blood like this during their teenage years, when they are just beginning to understand themselves and the world around them, is a different kind of madness...

 

[Duubpon]

My older brother was like this. Nigga was more strict and obsessive than my dad. I used to get beat by him for not saying my cashar correctly and he would hit me and force me to change when he considered by abaya too short. Not to even mention the verbal abuse.

I’ll never forget one time nigga locked me and him in his room because when he was picking me up from school a guy gave me back a pencil I let him borrow and said bye to me when I was 14 and he saw. When we got home he beat the shit out of me and called me a wh0r3, b¡tçh, $lüt, etc. While he was beating me he was forcing me to answer if I was a virgin or not (I was and still am) and my parents allowed it like wtf. After 2020 (when I was 16) I stopped talking to him and haven’t talked to him since then even though he’s tried to apologize like f*ck you


His abuse lowkey the reason why I stopped believing.

A lot of Somali gaalo are murtads because of abuse or trauma.

Her family seems crazy i just watched a tiktok saying she wasn’t allowed to wear her hair down at her home and asked if it was a somali thing??

WTH that’s messed up no wonder her and her bro got the same views.

Niggas make the deen seem way too hard and then expect doubtful laymen and laywomen teens to have strong Iman.

 

[Kisame]

Her family seems crazy i just watched a tiktok saying she wasn’t allowed to wear her hair down at her home and asked if it was a somali thing??

WTH that’s messed up no wonder her and her bro got the same views.

Some Somali parents are stricter than others. I've realized a lot of us didn't really grow up in similar households. Some parents made their households hell for their kids.