My brother is threatening to rat me out

[Baarisiyomoos]

Every time we fight or argue, he always threatens to tell our parents that I have a boyfriend. Sometimes he’ll literally go up and say “abo, what would you do if baarisiyomoos wanted to marry an Irish revert?” And I have to go and diffuse the situation. This nigga is literally blackmailing me and holding me hostage He’ll say “get me juice“ and I’m like “nah get it yourself” and then he pretends like he’s about to rat on me! I can’t take this. I’m so close to just telling my parents myself, banishment be damned. The stress is too much

 

[Jaydaan]

Pay him off. If I was him I would blackmail you every week so you can clean my room and make me food

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Pay him off. If I was him I would blackmail you every week so you can clean my room and make me food

If I pay him off he’ll just abuse it more it’s loss loss.

 

[pirater]

your brother is so smart. that's such good leverage. how did he even find out

 

[Kool-Aid]

Every time we fight or argue, he always threatens to tell our parents that I have a boyfriend. Sometimes he’ll literally go up and say “abo, what would you do if baarisiyomoos wanted to marry an Irish revert?” And I have to go and diffuse the situation. This nigga is literally blackmailing me and holding me hostage He’ll say “get me juice“ and I’m like “nah get it yourself” and then he pretends like he’s about to rat on me! I can’t take this. I’m so close to just telling my parents myself, banishment be damned. The stress is too much

Just go tell your parents you have a boyfriend or just break up with your boyfriend.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

your brother is so smart. that's such good leverage. how did he even find out

My brother and my boyfriend are friends, we all went to school together So he eventually found out, though I can’t remember exactly how

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Just go tell your parents you have a boyfriend or just break up with your boyfriend.

TELL? Stop the madness

 

[pirater]

My brother and my boyfriend are friends, we all went to school together So he eventually found out, though I can’t remember exactly how

no

 

[Kool-Aid]

TELL? Stop the madness

Are you insinuating that your parents would be mad?

 

[Onyxbrainster]

Can I be honest with you? You shouldn't be having a bf. If you feel he is right for you, get your parents involved and his parents and get married. Sneaking around with a man who is ajanabi can lead to anything and you might end up doing things you regret. Better to make it halal.

 

[elite1337]

Then you find dirt on him for you to blackmail him too rookie

 

[exposedmeat]

Every time we fight or argue, he always threatens to tell our parents that I have a boyfriend. Sometimes he’ll literally go up and say “abo, what would you do if baarisiyomoos wanted to marry an Irish revert?” And I have to go and diffuse the situation. This nigga is literally blackmailing me and holding me hostage He’ll say “get me juice“ and I’m like “nah get it yourself” and then he pretends like he’s about to rat on me! I can’t take this. I’m so close to just telling my parents myself, banishment be damned. The stress is too much

am surprised u gonna marry him i mean this gf bf thing always end up breaking up but u really think u gonna mary him, how old are if i may ask

 

[pirater]

you should ask around to find some dirt on him. maybe he's dated someone or is dating someone

 

[Mukhalas]

Your brother is dayuuth if he's not disgusted that you have a boyfriend let alone a gaalo and ajnabi one. He doesn't care the dignity and honor of his family.

 

[Juliet]

My brother and my boyfriend are friends, we all went to school together So he eventually found out, though I can’t remember exactly how

why would you go for your brother's friend?

 

[reer]

I have a boyfriend.

i hope you get taken to baadiyo for dhaqan celis.

 

[TekNiKo]

ur brother weak ass simp if he allows his irish friend to smock his sister

 

[Dima&Damo]

Your Brother Is A Dayuus How He Let The Homies Shuukaansi His Sister Hope Your Family Is Not From Nugaal Or Else We Will Be Having A Shiir Boyfriend Kulaha Xalimos In The Uk/Us Are Down Bad

 

[Noway]

I don't know how can anyone be on a somali diaspora website which means they are close to their roots and yet plan to marry another ethnicity?
It's like maintaining two relationships simultaneously, shit must be exhausting

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Are you insinuating that your parents would be mad?

Yes