My brother is threatening to rat me out

Baarisiyomoos

buuq iyo balaayo 🫧
I don't know how can anyone be on a somali diaspora website which means they are close to their roots and yet plan to marry another ethnicity?:jaynerd:
It's like maintaining two relationships simultaneously, shit must be exhausting :jaynerd:
I never planned to it just happened 🤔 but that doesn’t mean I don’t like being somali
 
You are 17 correct? Sis as someone who is older ima give you some real advice. You are either gonna have to tell your parents and make it halal or break it off. Those are realistically your only options. It’s all good now when you are young but the longer you stay as bf/gf and the closer you get to each other the more fitna comes up and you may do something you will regret. If you really like him and want to be with him you need to tell your parents and stop the sneaking around, it’s haram for one and it’s also mentally stressful. Yes they will be mad at first, but Somali parents almost always come around especially if he’s a good guy
 

Baarisiyomoos

buuq iyo balaayo 🫧
Can I be honest with you? You shouldn't be having a bf. If you feel he is right for you, get your parents involved and his parents and get married. Sneaking around with a man who is ajanabi can lead to anything and you might end up doing things you regret. Better to make it halal.
I was going to but we aren’t old enough and anyways I’ve decided I need to figure out if it’s right for me
 

Baarisiyomoos

buuq iyo balaayo 🫧
You are 17 correct? Sis as someone who is older ima give you some real advice. You are either gonna have to tell your parents and make it halal or break it off. Those are realistically your only options. It’s all good now when you are young but the longer you stay as bf/gf and the closer you get to each other the more fitna comes up and you may do something you will regret. If you really like him and want to be with him you need to tell your parents and stop the sneaking around, it’s haram for one and it’s also mentally stressful. Yes they will be mad at first, but Somali parents almost always come around especially if he’s a good guy
Thank you for the advice 🙏🏾 I don’t want to tell them cause I know they’ll react badly but I know that I’ll either have to tell them somehow or break off with him. Tbh I’m just stalling because I don’t like either option.
 

Based

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ur brother weak ass simp if he allows his irish friend to smock his sister :hemad: :deadpeter:
If I was him I would strangle that Irish negro and banish him
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@Baarisiyomoos It seems you have two options left for you:

1.) Dump the Irishman and keep on the straight path.
2.) Cook for your brother whatever he likes for the rest of his life.
3.) Renounce your Somali identity and become the first black Irishwoman in modern history.
 
I won’t be an irish woman if i marry him wtf 😭😭
If you marry him any resulting children will be counted as Irishmen and Irishwomen khalaas. If you had to marry an Irishman, I suggest marrying a leprechaun because they bring good luck and possess a pot of gold which can be your mahr.
 

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