My dad left me as a child

[World]

How can you take someone to the mosque who runs away lock his ass up, and I want my child support money too. if this was an islamic court system he would be locked up.

Lock him up for what? Not seeing his children even though your mother said she’ll disown you for speaking to him?

Obviously what you posted is one side of the story, and not his side of the story.

 

[NotMyL]

@IftiinOfLife ’s dad after he finds out she’s making that bread

 

[Tukraq]

Like the title explains.

I am now around same age he was when he emigrated to the west, and I made more money this year, then he did his entire life.

Is Karma real?





But it hit me, I am the same age range, he was when he went to start a new life and I'm miles ahead of him Deep feels.

how old is he? made more than he did his whole life in a year? average human makes like 2 mill there whole lives, even if he's on the low side should be some serious bank, good job

 

[IftiinOfLife]

@IftiinOfLife ’s dad after he finds out she’s making that bread
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I make a lot of money why do you all think I'm so happy. My mother and family live very... comfortably.

I made a good life for my family, keyword I

The only good thing my father gave me was my tribe

 

[IftiinOfLife]

how old is he? made more than he did his whole life in a year? average human makes like 2 mill there whole lives, even if he's on the low side should be some serious bank, good job

I know I make more money cause I went through my moms things and found his old pay stubs and shit from the 90s, and did a google conversion of the dollar then and now.

Wallahi

, then the deep feels hit.

In a few months I'll make a thread showing how I make 6-8k a month without a degree, and without breaking the law, but I gotta settle a few things first before making my affairs public. I will teach you guys how to make cash..without selling your ass.

 

[IftiinOfLife]

If people can visit their murderous parents in jail, i can see my dad 1 time. Relax.

 

[Tukraq]

I know I make more money cause I went through my moms things and found his old pay stubs and shit from the 90s, and did a google conversion of the dollar then and now.

Wallahi

, then the deep feels hit.

In a few months I'll make a thread showing how I make 6-8k a month without a degree, and without breaking the law, but I gotta settle a few things first before making my affairs public. I will teach you guys how to make cash..without selling your ass.

did you do the conversion right? 6 to 8k is like 100k a year max, even on minimum wage he would have passed that in 5 years time lol, so defiantly not his life earnings, but at 8k a month your practically in the 6 figure club(96k) so like I said good job

 

[IftiinOfLife]

did you do the conversion right? 6 to 8k is like 100k a year max, even on minimum wage he would have passed that in 5 years time lol, so defiantly not his life earnings, but at 8k a month your practically in the 6 figure club(96k) so like I said good job

I did the conversion and he was making at my age, in today's current money ( after conversion) 15 dollars an hour .

I felt so ashamed.


The money I make..I talk big and back it up... but I gave up my youth and other things to do it. Everything comes at a price.

 

[Abdurahman_somali]

Believe it or not, your father knows that he completely fucked up and the reason he tries to escape is because, what should he tell you after so many years ? Still I would never defend him and you have every right to be angry about him. He didn't take responsibility of his wife and children and left them alone in the end, the worst thing a man can do.

However sister, if you ever talk to your father again, it is not right to emasculate or hate him. You will gain nothing by telling him his obvious mistakes, nor will this make up for the fact that he neglected his family for so long. It will only make his life even more miserable. You can be proud of yourself and everything you achieved and I promise you, this alone will make him happy, because in the end of the day he is still your father. Tell him what a great person you have become. You should also tell him that he should make tauba and change his life, because it is never to late to change. What do you think how much of an inpact it will have to hear your daughter has done great and advises you to get your shit together ? There is nothing more powerfull than kind words, especially from the right person. Forgiveness is the way of great people, so my advise to you is to follow this path.

Just an adivse from me.

 

[Umm-al-Dhegdheeriyaa]

My dad is that kind of bastard, he even had the guts to start another family after destroying our family.
When I was 5, I saw my dad beating my mum up, my older sister and I threw toys at my dad
He used to hit my older sister, brother and I so bad that teachers would ask us why we had random bruises on our bodies. I got hit with a cable wire this one time for not memorising quickly two full page of this surah
In front of the Somali community he was seen as being a good religious mosque teacher. In the beginning my mum was blamed for the divorce but after he started having issues with his second wife, everyone slowly started to figure out the kind of bastard he is

 

[Umm-al-Dhegdheeriyaa]

So you don’t have to ever see your dad, it’s up to you, for all the the things he made your family go through, as you get older you can decide if he has actually changed or is worth your time

 

[IftiinOfLife]

My dad is that kind of bastard, he even had the guts to start another family after destroying our family.
When I was 5, I saw my dad beating my mum up, my older sister and I threw toys at my dad
He used to hit my older sister, brother and I so bad that teachers would ask us why we had random bruises on our bodies. I got hit with a cable wire this one time for not memorising quickly two full page of this surah
In front of the Somali community he was seen as being a good religious mosque teacher. In the beginning my mum was blamed for the divorce but after he started having issues with his second wife, everyone slowly started to figure out the kind of bastard he is

My dad was not religious , but thankfully he wasn't gaalo wheeeeh close call.

I remember the random beatings too but I never cried He tried to beat up my little sister once and I had to push him down the stairs How do you even describe that to people??? Shit like that turned me into the savage I am today.

I agree our community hides this shit to protect the dads, but they don't care about the wife or the kids lol. I am sorry you went through that sis.

 

[Waaqo of Punt]

@IftiinOfLife not trying to repeat myself but still consider that trying to talk to him and being left disappointed is better than to doubt and regretting it later. But it's ur choice in the end, idk who u are as a person.

I was gonna PM u about summ unrelated to this thread but u have ur PM are closed

 

[IftiinOfLife]

@IftiinOfLife not trying to repeat myself but still consider that trying to talk to him and being left disappointed is better than to doubt and regretting it later. But it's ur choice in the end, idk who u are as a person.

I was gonna PM u about summ unrelated to this thread but u have ur PM are closed

I'm leaving this site for a hiatus, its a bit boring. It was nice speaking to you all.

Why would I need my pm open, I'm not desperate like some people.

 

[kickz]

Even if my father was a drunkard, I would never disrespect him or talk badly about him. I am his son, and he has rights over me. I would advice him and try take him to the mosque.

Nah, if mine was an useless drunkard I would fight him myself.

 

[beenleey]

This post makes me happy All that matters is that you and your mum are doing good, you dont need closure at all.

 

[Waaqo of Punt]

I'm leaving this site for a hiatus, its a bit boring. It was nice speaking to you all.

Why would I need my pm open, I'm not desperate like some people.

lol I was curious about ur seemingly amazing method of making and saving money That's all.

nice speaking to u too. gl with ur shit.

 

[IftiinOfLife]

lol I was curious about ur seemingly amazing method of making and saving money That's all.

nice speaking to u too. gl with ur shit.

I'll make a thread on money in the new year, don't worry.

I don't use the private message function cause I know Somali guys are creepy

 

[GoldmanSachs]

At least it sounds like you turned out fine. That's all that matters.

 

[Umm-al-Dhegdheeriyaa]

My dad was not religious , but thankfully he wasn't gaalo wheeeeh close call.

I remember the random beatings too but I never cried He tried to beat up my little sister once and I had to push him down the stairs How do you even describe that to people??? Shit like that turned me into the savage I am today.

I agree our community hides this shit to protect the dads, but they don't care about the wife or the kids lol. I am sorry you went through that sis.

There’s nothing worse than a gaalo dad I’m thankful for that too
I can relate to that so much. I’m a complete savage and for the longest time felt no pain to physical and emotional stuff
but how did your dad survive that fall?
I’m sorry you went through what you did as well, glad you’re sharing it here