"My husband married another woman i want him to divorce me" Good response from Sheikh abu dalxa

[Hassan2000]

I think they have mental issues. Why are they so insecure about women their own age? Are they scared of being challenged? Those are Sicko. Why not Marry someone your own age

Its nothing to do with "insecurities" and being "challenged" lol. Dont drink the western koolaid. Younger women are more fertile, thus can provide more children, also helps they are a lot more attractive

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

there isn't any problem with polygamy as Muslims... when both partners knows before marrying if they want that in their marriage.
wallahi polygamy is a beautiful thing when done rightfully but disgusting men and some lazy women make it something awful.
wallahi how hard it is to be a good Muslim for Somalis... east to west always the first to do unIslamic behaviour.

 

[ReerVanCadde]

Honestly, you guys are acting like all guys just go and plan to have 4 wives in a row.
Can't a guy plan to be monogamous but spontaneously change his mind after meeting a beautiful qalanjo?
What this sheikh said is right, sometimes a second wife takes pressure off the first. Plus, she can always hold it over the guy.
Besides, why would you leave him all to his newfound wife?

 

[so_wavey]

Honestly, you guys are acting like all guys just go and plan to have 4 wives in a row.
Can't a guy plan to be monogamous but spontaneously change his mind after meeting a beautiful qalanjo?
What this sheikh said is right, sometimes a second wife takes pressure off the first. Plus, she can always hold it over the guy.
Besides, why would you leave him all to his newfound wife?

exactly no one really plans to have 4 wives but if you see a beautiful young halimo why not?

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

Honestly, you guys are acting like all guys just go and plan to have 4 wives in a row.
Can't a guy plan to be monogamous but spontaneously change his mind after meeting a beautiful qalanjo?
What this sheikh said is right, sometimes a second wife takes pressure off the first. Plus, she can always hold it over the guy.
Besides, why would you leave him all to his newfound wife?

what about lowering your gaze... can I change husband if a meet a handsome man to.... so you telling me all is about lust.
After submitting to Allah the second thing a Muslim should do is control himself and weight the pros and cons of his decision on himself and others before acting.

 

[so_wavey]

what about lowering your gaze... can I change husband if a meet a handsome man to.... so you telling me all is about lust.
After submitting to Allah the second thing a Muslim should do is control himself and weight the pros and cons of his decision on himself and others before acting.

well thats haram for a girl but for a man if he sees a beautiful younger woman its halal for him to get her by marrying her makes sense?

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

well thats haram for a girl but for a man if he sees a beautiful younger woman its halal for him to get her by marrying her makes sense?

well, it's halal to divorce before having my new qalanjo husband... I am only following the rules.

 

[so_wavey]

well, it's halal to divorce before having my new qalanjo husband... I am only following the rules.

there is a hadith if a womans asks for divorce with no good reason she will not smell the fragrance of jannah

the messenger of allah said "If a woman asks her husband for a divorce, for no reason, then the smell of paradise is forbidden for her". (At-Tirmidhi narrated it. He said this is a hasan hadith. Sunnah At-Tirmidhi #1187.)

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

there is a hadith if a womans asks for divorce with no good reason she will not smell the fragrance of jannah

the messenger of allah said "If a woman asks her husband for a divorce, for no reason, then the smell of paradise is forbidden for her". (At-Tirmidhi narrated it. He said this is a hasan hadith. Sunnah At-Tirmidhi #1187.)

Why use hadith if woman ask divorce she right to it if she isn't attractive to her husband or don't want him to be with him
Can u said same about men tht divorce their wife or wifes without reason
Plus bring chain narrations of tht hadith

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

there is a hadith if a womans asks for divorce with no good reason she will not smell the fragrance of jannah

the messenger of allah said "If a woman asks her husband for a divorce, for no reason, then the smell of paradise is forbidden for her". (At-Tirmidhi narrated it. He said this is a hasan hadith. Sunnah At-Tirmidhi #1187.)

well, I think it's a very valid reason if I am repulsed and have no sexual desire for my husband. I have the right to be sexually pleased by my husband....

 

[Amirah]

a man will be even more tentative to your needs when he marries again just be patient and be smart dont think out of emotion

naaghiow shaydanki iska naar

lmao because that never or rarely ever happens. As soon as a guy marries another woman especially farah all their attention, money and time goes to new one which is haram because that’s the conditions Allah set forth in order for a man marry is to be fair and xaaq to all equally. So yeah these women have legit concerns.

 

[Amirah]

I honestly strongly Dislike this so called shiekh. He is so biased. Every video he sides with men and makes women worship men. Dhiimo!

isn’t that always the case!? The only thing I wanna figure out tho is if this is only prevalent in Somali sheekhs only or if others are like this too? I mean Somali sheekhs don’t even try to hide their sexist, misogynist contempt for women. What gives me some satisfaction though is knowing that one of the first person to enter hell will actually be a suppose “sheekh”.

 

[so_wavey]

well, I think it's a very valid reason if I am repulsed and have no sexual desire for my husband. I have the right to be sexually pleased by my husband....

how is it a valid reason? its somethinga allowed sunnah as well

Your value will be dropped anyway once you divorced the community sees divorced women not same as not divorced

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

how is it a valid reason? its somethinga allowed sunnah as well

Your value will be dropped anyway once you divorced the community sees divorced women not same as not divorced

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

how is it a valid reason? its somethinga allowed sunnah as well

Your value will be dropped anyway once you divorced the community sees divorced women not same as not divorced

ok and .... I am only here to please Allah, the community should fear Allah for such misogynistic discrimination.

Yes, pleasing the wife is important to prevent zina .... I mean I am virgin for how many years is not to have a distasteful sex life

 

[Amirah]

I think they have mental issues. Why are they so insecure about women their own age? Are they scared of being challenged? Those are Sicko. Why not Marry someone your own age

off course, women their age will demand her xaaq! But they rather continue the cycle of abuse and get away with it! Usually in civilized society that’s not allowed - grown men are not allowed to abuse children whereas Somalis literally encourage it, supplying/selling their young girls like prostitutes to these old perverted sexual predators, where they use ‘em and discard ‘em like used tissue in exchange for the newest model!

Essentially Somali culture is no different than JeffreyEpstein, imagine if the American people backed him up in abusing little girls and supported his abuse by citing Christianity. How’s it any different than what’s happening in Somalia? Only difference in Somalia is happening in large scale where every single male has been indoctrinated to take part of the abuse.

 

[Halimo-2018]

off course, women their age will demand her xaaq! But they rather continue the cycle of abuse and get away with it! Usually in civilized society that’s not allowed - grown men are not allowed to abuse children whereas Somalis literally encourage it, supplying/selling their young girls like prostitutes to these old perverted sexual predators, where they use ‘em and discard ‘em like used tissue in exchange for the newest model!

Essentially Somali culture is no different than JeffreyEpstein, imagine if the American people backed him up in abusing little girls and supported his abuse by citing Christianity. How’s it any different than what’s happening in Somalia? Only difference in Somalia is happening in large scale where every single male has been indoctrinated to take part of the abuse.

Right, in that case what they want is a human blow up doll. These men will not understand until they have daughters of their own Even than some will not care.

 

[Alluring]

Why do we keep recycling this dead topic?

Feel free to mistreat women all you want, make sure to have tons of children you will never care for. Remember equality isn’t for women and they don’t deserve rights so do whatever you feel like doing with them. Keep up the good work!

 

[ReerVanCadde]

@Alluring saxiib, it's survival of the fittest. Equality doesn't exist never has.
It only exists in the Hereafter. So without Islam, I would of had 100 wives and my own tribe.

 

[gbrlax3]

@Alluring saxiib, it's survival of the fittest. Equality doesn't exist never has.
It only exists in the Hereafter. So without Islam, I would of had 100 wives and my own tribe.

wallah what are somali men doing? can save up many dollars n euros go back to Somalia and create a tribe of 100 ppl