My married friend cut me off completely

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

I think the wife is responsible for breaking apart our friendship. I’ve only seen the guy once the last 2 years. I don’t know even what happened. Is it a normal occurrence?

I still don’t know what happened.

 

[Shimbiris]

I think the wife is responsible for breaking apart our friendship. I’ve only seen the guy once the last 2 years. I don’t know even what happened. Is it a normal occurrence?

I still don’t know what happened.

Could be a lot of things. Could just be busy now given his predicament. Could be that the wife is unhealthily attached and has annexed him. Could be that he's depressed as f*ck due either to the relationship or other matters and being a recluse. Could even be that the saxiib has it out for you. Only way to know is to just holler and ask what's up.

 

[Jaydaan]

Why you assume it’s her? You beefing with her

 

[Kool-Aid]

I think the wife is responsible for breaking apart our friendship. I’ve only seen the guy once the last 2 years. I don’t know even what happened. Is it a normal occurrence?

I still don’t know what happened.

The wife sees you as a bad influence, so she ordered her husband to cut ties with you or else no honey.

Predictably he caved!

 

[Bille]

Wife told him you were bad influence. She said you're gudaafad uff that's why he dropped you saxiib.

 

[exposedmeat]

How can I say this MOVE ON is the least you can do for yourself nigga moved on so do the same thing

 

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

Why you assume it’s her? You beefing with her

I think it’s the only possible explanation. I don’t even know her that well. I’m also not at war with her.

The wife sees you as a bad influence, so she ordered her husband to cut ties with you or else no honey.

Predictably he caved!
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I’m not one of those crazy kids. We both went to the same high school and University.

Wife told him you were bad influence. She said you're gudaafad uff that's why he dropped you saxiib.

How would I be of any negative influence? I don’t even use balwad and I’m gainfully employed.

 

[Wervelwind]

What about his other friends? Did he cut them too?

 

[KobeBryant]

Very unfortunate another case of the ethnic women completely controlling her man. Only the strong willed can handle ethnic women.

 

[mr steal your naag]

I think the wife is responsible for breaking apart our friendship. I’ve only seen the guy once the last 2 years. I don’t know even what happened. Is it a normal occurrence?

I still don’t know what happened.

What crazy person would ever befriend you ?

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

He wasn't really your friend if all it took to break up your friendship was a stern warning from the mrs.

Why do people insist on throwing that word around so lightly? You'd be lucky to have 1-5 real friends in a lifetime wallahi. Cut your losses and keep it moving sxb, he was an acquaintance at best.

 

[Halimo-2018]

He has a family now back off. Have some self respect

 

[Empress of Hawiye]

He has a family now back off. Have some self respect

when you get married will you ditch all your friends that's kinda sad

 

[elite1337]

your ethnic friend?

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

when you get married will you ditch all your friends that's kinda sad

Abusive relationships 101, isolate your partner from their friends and support-system under the guise of it being somehow "better" for your family/marriage. I've it seen it a 1000 times.

 

[Halimo-2018]

when you get married will you ditch all your friends that's kinda sad

I wouldnnot personally but a lot people feel overwhelmed with their new life and responsibilities. This happened to me when my middle school bff got married so i backed off completely. Don’t force yourself on anyone. It’s all about self respect.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

I stop talking to my married friends, i just feel like giving them space.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I stop talking to my married friends, i just feel like giving them space.

Space for what exactly? It's not like they're working for a fortune 500 company or one of the Big Four during busy season

 

[Bille]

How would I be of any negative influence? I don’t even use balwad and I’m gainfully employed.

I think you didn't praise her enough, you didn't call her Dumaashi. You get her wrong side.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Space for what exactly? It's not like they're working for a fortune 500 company or one of the Big Four during busy season

lmao once someone gets married i cant share any personal things or gossip with them cause they’d share it with their husband.

thats another reason too.