My married friend cut me off completely

lmao once someone gets married i cant share any personal things or gossip with them cause they’d share it with their husband.

thats another reason too.
I am one of those people that actually respects other people’s privacy i do not share everything my family or friends tell me. My husband is not an extension of me he is his own person. I can see where you coming from a lot of couples share everything maybe thats why there are toi many divorces.
 
lmao once someone gets married i cant share any personal things or gossip with them cause they’d share it with their husband.

thats another reason too.
So lol? You're assuming their husbands would gives two shits about your gossip :heh:
Distancing yourself from real friends you've had for over a decade after they're married is fukt.
 

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So lol? You're assuming their husbands would gives two shits about your gossip :heh:
Distancing yourself from real friends you've had for over a decade after they're married is fukt.
Its life, i do visit my friends once a year. I dont completely cut them off.

Plus i dont like rubbing on there faces i am single cause some regret getting married young and wish they stayed single cause now they have too much responsibilities and restrictions lol not much freedom 😔
 

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I am one of those people that actually respects other people’s privacy i do not share everything my family or friends tell me. My husband is not an extension of me he is his own person. I can see where you coming from a lot of couples share everything maybe thats why there are toi many divorces.
Stop lying you tell me everything about your friends
 
You have no proof it was the 'wife' that caused this.

I don't understand people. One min men are leaders and unemotional, the next minute men are vulnerable creatures that don't have a mind of their own so it must be the wife!
 
lmao once someone gets married i cant share any personal things or gossip with them cause they’d share it with their husband.

thats another reason too.

I still tell my married friends stuff, however its dawned on me recently that they probably tell a good % to their husbands.


:damn:

Yep, i think its time i stopped telling them stuff.
 

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You have no proof it was the 'wife' that caused this.

I don't understand people. One min men are leaders and unemotional, the next minute men are vulnerable creatures that don't have a mind of their own so it must be the wife!
I think he's trying to make sense of the situation. It come off to be very strange to be good friends with one and just leave and never talk to them again. Also he's a human. Men are people at the end of the day. We need to make sense of situations.
 

BobSmoke

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Maxaa kaa galay what reason the nigga cut you off for, just respect it and keep it pushing.

I've had this happen to me a couple times, it's never really that deep. I understand if a person has outgrown me or don't see me hold a relevancy in their lives. It was never a question of loyalty, the friends that cut me off knows that my integrity and loyalty is strong as hell. It was merely relevancy in somebodies lives and I get it.

I'm still gonna do me, and I stopped hanging with a lot of people, I still got love for them but the truth is they were nothing but distraction for whatever purpose I'm looking to pursue. We weren't even that like minded in the first place. And I'm not going to distract them aswell
 
I don't think that's the experience with most people. It has not been my experience with my close friends. In fact, one close friend has become even closer with me since he got married two years ago.

Is his wife reer Xamar cadcad? The stereotype is reer Xamar cadcads make their new husbands cut off everyone, even his own family members.
 

Lostbox

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If his was one of your close bros. Why don't you ask how life been or something? See how his doing? You got nothing to lose checking up if his ok
 
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