Suggesting marriage (probably in a playful manner) isnt losing composureI agree with twitter.
They see a light skin/non black woman and they lose composer.
Its embarrassing and lets be real, no other group does it.
I see people say stuff like that towards their own and no one bats an eye (and rightfully so) but these people would go nuts if its done towards someone else (even more ridiculous when you find out the girl is half nigerian herself trying out the foods of one half of their family)
its insecurity