I was recently speaking to a teen Somali guy, who ghosted a Somali girl, because he didn't have a 'nice car' to pick her up in.. for a date. He of course regrets it, and is now working overtime to regain her trust. This girl has never mentioned that she wants a man in a nice car, she doesn't even know why he ghosted her btw. I promise you one thing, once you ghost a girl/ woman, you're basically 100% untrustworthy qashin in her eyes. So when you run back in regret, you have a huge mountain to climb, and friends/family to convince who already dislike you.
Stop ghosting when you feel insecure, oo shaydaanka iska naara. Women just want consistency and nice, thoughtful treatment. You know what's nicer than a bunch of red roses? Listening to her when she talks about what she likes, and then giving it to her. It could be a candy bar for all she cares. Girls/women like to feel heard, not just get meaningless trinkets that you could be giving any girl/woman. Maybe a woman is allergic to flowers, you don't even know, if you don't ask.
Stop getting in your head, and stop sabotaging your love life. You're letting a man your age, swoop up the woman of your dreams, because of your own imaginary problems.
I have noticed on here also, when I try to give a guy tips on how to speak to women, they rebuff my message, and act like I am lying. And for your own sanity, delete social media, if you can't separate fake from real. These social media influencers, rent fake planes, drive rentals, max out credit cars, commit fraud etc, to live a fake life, for clicks. All this obsession with achieving physical perfection, financial perfection, is insane. Live your life, do your best, and stop getting in your own way.
Signed,
A WOMAN
Stop ghosting when you feel insecure, oo shaydaanka iska naara. Women just want consistency and nice, thoughtful treatment. You know what's nicer than a bunch of red roses? Listening to her when she talks about what she likes, and then giving it to her. It could be a candy bar for all she cares. Girls/women like to feel heard, not just get meaningless trinkets that you could be giving any girl/woman. Maybe a woman is allergic to flowers, you don't even know, if you don't ask.
Stop getting in your head, and stop sabotaging your love life. You're letting a man your age, swoop up the woman of your dreams, because of your own imaginary problems.
I have noticed on here also, when I try to give a guy tips on how to speak to women, they rebuff my message, and act like I am lying. And for your own sanity, delete social media, if you can't separate fake from real. These social media influencers, rent fake planes, drive rentals, max out credit cars, commit fraud etc, to live a fake life, for clicks. All this obsession with achieving physical perfection, financial perfection, is insane. Live your life, do your best, and stop getting in your own way.
Signed,
A WOMAN
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