No woman likes Miskiin men.

[AdoonkaAlle]

@Gibiin-Udug

dooqada waa caynkaan soo ma ahaan






Soomalida waxaay ku maahmaahda "Rag wuxuu kugu bartuu kugu dilaa" ee is ilaali baa ku iri

 

[Desert Flower]

That makes sense. It doesn’t have to be fake as far as a favor, it can be real. You can even try trusting them with something minor. My point is, you can usually tell how much you mean to them, and you’ll probably cross that path with something that might demonstrate that normally.

But angering them on purpose is counterintuitive lol. It requires thought, bc it has to be real anger.

Men are selfish, and will not help a woman unless he is interested in her. So, asking for a favour and him not delivering on it (or even communicating that he is unable to honour your request) shows that he isn’t interested and you aren’t that important to him. Of course, I am only talking from my own experience.

 

[VixR]

Men are selfish, and will not help a woman unless he is interested in her. So, asking for a favour and him not delivering on it (or even communicating that he is unable to honour your request) shows that he isn’t interested and you aren’t that important to him. Of course I am only talking from my own experience.

No, I agree.

I also think you should agree on:

1) Money (where you spend your money is an indicator of what you think is important. If you’re not on the same page on how it’s earned and spent, you’ll be in trouble).
2) Kids (how many, when, where)
3) Each other’s families (How to deal with the crazies that’ll butt into your relationship, or otherwise bring other crazy problems).

 

[Samaalic Era]

Men are selfish, and will not help a woman unless he is interested in her. So, asking for a favour and him not delivering on it (or even communicating that he is unable to honour your request) shows that he isn’t interested and you aren’t that important to him. Of course, I am only talking from my own experience.

Only a would carry out favors and errands for non maxram women

 

[Desert Flower]

No, I agree.

I also think you should agree on:

1) Money (where you spend your money is an indicator of what you think is important. If you’re not on the same page on how it’s earned and spent, you’ll be in trouble).
2) Kids (how many, when, where)
3) Each other’s families (How to deal with the crazies that’ll butt into your relationship, or otherwise bring other crazy problems).

This list is solid. But honestly even with all this, you don’t know someone until you live with them.

 

[VixR]

Only a would carry out favors and errands for non maxram women

You were fixed up. You’d be surprised at anything.

 

[Desert Flower]

Only a would carry out favors and errands for non maxram women

Well, I guess I’m surrounded by dickheads because I’ve had the fortune of having men do favours for me (but I’m not interested in them and there’s no funny business going on.) I’m not stupid as to why they are treating me as such.

 

[Samaalic Era]

You were fixed up. You’d be surprised at anything.

Would you do favors for a man that wasnt your husband. Be honest

 

[VixR]

Would you do favors for a man that wasnt your husband. Be honest

That’s not my metric. I do favors for all kinds, heck people I barely know if they need it.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Well, I guess I’m surrounded by dickheads because I’ve had the fortune of having men do favours for me (but I’m not interested in them and there’s no funny business going on.) I’m not stupid as to why they are treating me as such.

Only desperate men do favors for women who are not family or their spouse.
Clearly you havent chosen any of those men who did favors for you. Its women's nature

 

[VixR]

Only desperate men do favors for women who are not family or their spouse.
Clearly you havent chosen any of those men who did favors for you. Its women's nature

You don’t know how it works.

 

[Desert Flower]

Only desperate men do favors for women who are not family or their spouse.
Clearly you havent chosen any of those men who did favors for you. Its women's nature

I wouldn’t call them desperate. But I understand that men will do favours for a woman that they consider beautiful. Is that my fault? Of course I appreciate their help, but I’m not required to engage in a relationship out of pity.

 

[Samaalic Era]

You don’t know how it works.

How does it work then. You cant escape from this dilemma no matter how you explain

 

[Mckenzie]

So men are selfish for not doing favours for women but women aren't manipulative for asking favours from men

How about you do yourself a favour and not ask men for favours

 

[VixR]

How does it work then. You cant escape from this dilemma no matter how you explain

You have no idea.

My thing was angering on purpose. I have to like him to bother angering him.

So men are selfish for not doing favours for women but women aren't manipulative for asking favours from men

How about you do yourself a favour and not ask men for favours

Nah, if they care about you, they’ll do it.

 

[Samaalic Era]

I wouldn’t call them desperate. But I understand that men will do favours for a woman that they consider beautiful. Is that my fault? Of course I appreciate their help, but I’m not required to engage in a relationship out of pity.

Just admit you wouldnt choose those types of men because they display weak character and desperation.

 

[Desert Flower]

Just admit you wouldnt choose those types of men because they display weak character and desperation.

only if you admit that what I say is true regarding how men operate? Am I honest or nah?

 

[Samaalic Era]

only if you admit that what I say is true regarding how men operate? Am I honest or nah?

It seems we are at impasse, why do you have to be so stubborn

 

[Samaalic Era]

You have no idea.

My thing was angering on purpose. I have to like him to bother angering him.

Nah, if they care about you, they’ll do it.

Your posts trigger me alot, should I take that as a sign

 

[Desert Flower]

It seems we are at impasse, why do you have to be so stubborn

Then I’m done going back and forth with you.


Good day sir.