Why do people go on about how a woman expires when she hits 30 on here? I didn’t realize my worth as a human being is done in a few years. Why didn’t anyone tell me? I have to prepare for my imminent death. What is so attractive about a 20 year old rather than a 30 year old? Is it because you want her to pop out a kid each year or because you don’t want a partner who’s financially independent? I personally haven’t met many 20 year olds who are financially stable, so I fail to see what’s so attractive. There isn’t much of a difference in looks, so don’t be spouting bullshit about how women look better in their early 20s. Anyways, I’d like to know what’s so much more attractive about women in their early 20s. Plenty of women are giving birth to healthy babies, so don’t tell me about the risks of pregnancy as well.
The sunnah is to marry young and to seek anything that deviates from this is a manifestation of deep corruption which only leads one to ruins.
You see the males for the most part from the gangbanger to the salesman all desired marriage at a young age but crazed circumstances and expectations for the most part continues to prevent them.
But the majority of our Xaalimo's for the most part don't even have this desire until they hit late 20's or into there 30's pissing away their primes in slavery and servitude (career) and for the most part still have nothing to show for it.
Of course your human and those desires can't be turned off and since you didn't care about the sunnah to begin with that thirst will be quenched by other shameless means of course.
So you get a 30 year old that has had on average 6 or more illigitimate relationships in that period.
Filled to the brim with all types of psychological scars, deep emotional issues as well as a litany of never ending negative baggage or trauma she carries from those experiences.
Spent the best part of her life languishing in slavery and servitude for a multitude of bosses she takes pride in instead of her husband.
Comes with a laundry list of liabilities and financial debts, and the worst part is the complete absence of any tangible worldly assets to her name despite pissing away her prime.
Loss upon loss upon loss which is what you expect when you turn away from the Prophetic guidance.
But as typical of females in general instead of advicing the younger generation not to make the same mistakes they have, you instead drag each other down that black pit.
You have been warned countless times in your prime years but choose to ignore it, no need for calaacal today, you had countless opportunities that the males never had and it didn't require any effort from you.