Please tell me i'm wrong

[Cyberborg]

Do you think having your daughters getting their privates checked every year will make them trust you? They will grow up not respecting you. A male figure should be a role model for girls do not be stupid.

the men's job is to raise virgin daughters with respect, we don't care what the woman thinks, the deen and the nobility comes first, working hard to provide for my family means i will not be disrespected, u think any father's wants a daughter who is a hoe, r u mentally stable

 

[Genie]

A girl once tripped whilst trying to get in her bath and hit her regions really hard upon landing she found blood and live tweeted everyone that the bath tub took her virginity

in all seriousness this is actually a big issue if it does occur because i have never heard it, but say your daughter succumbs to her horniness ( we live in a hyper sexual society people!!) and lets a guy f*ck her , she will become anxious in trying to hide it from you , pacing up and down counting down the days to her next check up , next thing you know she comes to 3 options to tell her parents, kill herself or to run away , lets not add anymore problems to the ever growing problems in the somali community . Instead teach your daughters sharaaf and to guard her modesty that way she will have the will power to stay away from any predator that preys on her sharaaf at least thats how i was raised .

 

[TheWeekday]

i never heard of this but wow he is a smart father with nobility and he gave me idea for my own daughters my wife will take my daughters (if Allah blesses me with daughters) to a muslim doctor and she will medically check if her hymen is in tact every year or check in other medically possible ways

 

[Cyberborg]

Kuu so celi? What the hell did you write.

ur damn right, even white kuufaar pigs the culture u adopted will never accept a hoe daughter, watch hollywood shows where the drunk father protects his daughter from the men who are interested in her, r u crazy r u tryin to normalize being a sharmuut, u think being sharmuut is something good,

 

[ThreeTwentyOne]

ur damn right, even white kuufaar pigs the culture u adopted will never accept a hoe daughter, watch hollywood shows where the drunk father protects his daughter from the men who are interested in her, r u crazy r u tryin to normalize being a sharmuut, u think being sharmuut is something good,

If you have her legs open every year at a young age she'll get so accustomed to her legs being open that the second she sees you she will greet you with legs wide open. Don't talk about something ceeb about your daughter let her be a kid acudubillah.

 

[Cyberborg]

If you have her legs open every year at a young age she'll get so accustomed to her legs being open that the second she sees you she will greet you with legs wide open. Don't talk about something ceeb about your daughter let her be a kid acudubillah.

there will be no talking about it from me at all even my wife will not talk about it, the doctor will do the talking,

i never think being a sharmuut would be publicly acceptable,

 

[ThreeTwentyOne]

there will be no talking about it from me at all even my wife will not talk about it, the doctor will do the talking,

i never think being a sharmuut would be publicly acceptable,

It should not be acceptable but you should trust your parenting skills for your kid to be better than that.

 

[Leo]

What type of backwood nonsense is this ? Is your family reer miyi ? I've never heard of this before. I've heard of something along the lines of newly wed's family checking the white bed sheets to see if the bride was a virgin the night after their wedding ceremony.

 

[Bahal]

Your uncle might be autistic

 

[Southerner]

the men's job is to raise virgin daughters with respect,

What life is this?

 

[Ubax45_]

Yes, I believe I've heard of this tradition before though I was a young girl and cannot recall all the details.
Every year on one of the last nights of the rainy season, mother's check their daughters. With each year that a young woman proves that she hasn't been deflowered she is rewarded with a camel hence where the saying, "she with few camels has lost much" first originated.

 

[ThreeTwentyOne]

What type of backwood nonsense is this ? Is your family reer miyi ? I've never heard of this before. I've heard of something along the lines of newly wed's family checking the white bed sheets to see if the bride was a virgin the night after their wedding ceremony.

I am not reer miyi but I don't know where my uncle got this from. He is a smart man who I thought was taking care of his kids but what the hell is this?

 

[ThreeTwentyOne]

Your uncle might be autistic

If anything he needs to be checked

 

[ThreeTwentyOne]

Yes, I believe I've heard of this tradition before though I was a young girl and cannot recall all the details.
Every year on one of the last nights of the rainy season, mother's check their daughters. With each year that a young woman proves that she hasn't been deflowered she is rewarded with a camel hence where the saying, "she with few camels has lost much" first originated.

YESS this is what I remember hearing Allah ilhaaayay I'm going to talk to my mom about this. Mash'Allah ty.

 

[ItsHanna]

get out of my face, if she is not playing sports or riding bicycle then there is no excuse, i cannot do 100 lashes without witnesses but i will excommunicate and send her to the nomadic life, but if there's 4witnesses then lashes and then excommunicate and the nomadic life, i never want to see her face again

If you want to do that shit in Somalia or a backward Arab country go right ahead but you can't be whipping your daughter like Kunta Kinte in the west.

 

[Bahal]

If anything he needs to be checked

I recommend looking up local veterinarians.

 

[Zayd]

Never heard of this dhaqan before.

 

[DrippinglyWet]

Adulters sweating 'cause they know their hymen is long gone

 

[TooMacaan]

What the heck??? That is messed up and psychologically harmful!!! The only thing it'll achieve is to make girls withdrawn, deeply ashamed of their body/natural desires, and have low self-esteem overall. Virginity should be associated with discipline and modesty NOT shame and fear...just be rational instead of using these disgusting, intrusive practices.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

No?

Only a doctor can check if the hymen has been broken.

And that father should be ashamed of himself disgusting perv. This isn't a normal Somali thing and it has never happened to me.

Of course it didn't happened to you cause your family knew you were already annihilated in the 6th grade.