shaash saar or xeero

[Bahal]

soft sxb, @Duchess already clocked im from beesha barakaysan from time

Ive always had my suspicions but im pretty sure ive figured it out.

 

[Zuleikha]

^ something private that should be kept private I bet

Haa huuno it has inner meaning.

iirc xeedho represents naag la guuday oo la furaayo or whatever while shaash saar is pretty much analogous.

xeedho is unveiling and undressing the bride by the grooms family/best man, it represents how to do the deed basically. Shaashsaar is similar but little bit different they are celebrating 7 days of screwing yacni naag bay noqotay.

My mum is big fan of xeedho I vow not to associate myself with something as disgusting as that practice.

 

[Tramo]

Ive always had my suspicions but im pretty sure ive figured it out.

say word, aight let's hear it. ill tell u straight up if ur right

 

[Zuleikha]

@Tramo I welcome you with open arms khayr baad sheektay huuno

 

[Bahal]

say word, aight let's hear it. ill tell u straight up if ur right

I know for sure you're reer waqooyi, but I suspect you might be Dhulbahante

 

[Bahal]

xeedho is unveiling and undressing the bride by the grooms family/best man, it represents how to do the deed basically. Shaashsaar is similar but little bit different they are celebrating 7 days of screwing yacni naag bay noqotay.

My mum is big fan of xeedho I vow not to associate myself with something as disgusting as that practice.

I knew it was something strangely sexual

 

[Tramo]

I know for sure you're reer waqooyi, but I suspect you might be Dhulbahante

ayy u not wrong bro. did this xeero ish really narrow it down that much tho . i really was slippin, laa xawla

@Reiko we still cool right

 

[Bahal]

ayy u not wrong bro. did this xeero ish really narrow it down that much tho . i really was slippin, laa xawla

Nah bro, I suspected for years



I got qabiil-dar like you wouldn't believe

 

[Nabeel786]

Shaaah-saar means todoba bax

Xeero?

 

[Duchess]

ayy u not wrong bro. did this xeero ish really narrow it down that much tho . i really was slippin, laa xawla

@Reiko we still cool right

How was I so off base?

 

[Morphius]

Shaaah-saar means todoba bax

Xeero?

Xeer Iyo Fijaan. That thing that looks like figure 8 dressed in white cloth and tied by red ropes. Inside it has oodkac and Timir.

We call it xeer Iyo Fijaan. Isaaq call it xeedho that's all I know.

It's a weird ritual

 

[Thegoodshepherd]

Haa huuno it has inner meaning.




xeedho is unveiling and undressing the bride by the grooms family/best man, it represents how to do the deed basically. Shaashsaar is similar but little bit different they are celebrating 7 days of screwing yacni naag bay noqotay.

My mum is big fan of xeedho I vow not to associate myself with something as disgusting as that practice.

I understand shaashsaar, but abaayo please explain to me this "undressing of the bride to be by the grooms family/best man"??

 

[angrycat]

lol you guys are uncultured choosing between Xeero and Shaash saar

we do Xeero on weddings then Shaash saar on the one-week-versery. That is true Somali traditional way.

theyre both supposed to be done after 7 days @Zuleikha that is vulgar I had my suspicions about it after hearing the opening the thing part but I didnt think itd be that nasty

 

[Zuleikha]

I understand shaashsaar, but abaayo please explain to me this "undressing of the bride to be by the grooms family/best man"??

Read this thread it explains the inner meaning behind the xeedho.

http://www.somaliaonline.com/community/topic/xeedho/

 

[Morphius]

theyre both supposed to be done after 7 days

How can you do both at the same time??

 

[Thegoodshepherd]

Read this thread it explains the inner meaning behind the xeedho.

http://www.somaliaonline.com/community/topic/xeedho/

I think it has sexual connotations, and is probably pre-islamic. It says it is practiced in the north, but I have never heard of it.
Very interesting, thanks

 

[angrycat]

How can you do both at the same time??

you arent supposed to do both, just one depending on what region the girl is from

 

[Morphius]

you arent supposed to do both, just one depending on what region the girl is from

Then I think I always witness a Northern plus southern wedding because they did xeer on wedding day and the other on todoba bax.

 

[angrycat]

Then I think I always witness a Northern plus southern wedding because they did xeer on wedding day and the other on todoba bax.

I think normally they just follow the girls custom since its for her, so thats news to me

 

[Morphius]

I think normally they just follow the girls custom since its for her, so thats news to me

I don't understand it fully at all. Somali women are strange indeed. Only they can invent this