Shaax Corner's Advice Thread.

[Mudug-Madman]

I don't think the story is fake not all somali women are the tough and strong. There is a somali saying that goes 'lax walba meeshay is dhigtaa lagu qoracaaa' meaning a man will treat you the way you let him. If a man sense that you are vulnerable and naive best believe he will treat you like an animal.

Real men don't act like that, predators do.

 

[NaomiHoney]

:siilaanyosmile:

 

[waraabe]

:siilaanyosmile:

Will you post when u get married?

 

[dhegdheer]

:siilaanyosmile:

Gimme the link sis I wanna join

 

[NaomiHoney]

Will you post when u get married?

God knows. Hopefully i'll be too busy being a wife!

 

[NaomiHoney]

Gimme the link sis I wanna join

sis, you need a facebook friend to add you into the group

 

[dhegdheer]

sis, you need a facebook friend to add you into the group

Is it this one?

I think I have a friend who's part of the group

 

[NaomiHoney]

Yea! thats the one sis

 

[Bernie Madoff]

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Is it this one?

I think I have a friend who's part of the group

thanks i sent a friend request now

 

[dhegdheer]

thanks i sent a friend request now

That's a secret sanctuary for women they'll just reject you for being a guy

 

[Bernie Madoff]

That's a secret sanctuary for women they'll just reject you for being a guy

im going to send them a msg saying that someones fb got hacked in that group and i need to verify for that person

wish me luck

 

[DiricLover]

#ADMINPOST

How these girls trying to get fame of other people misery and dhibaato referring to the anonymous post. That are sent to us admins by girls that ONLY want their story sent here for the sisters to advice them. If y'all don't have nothing else going on for yourself wax isku taar explore your talents don't think you can feed off someone else misery and make it into your stardom. Meel naga faadiiso gabdho because you will get banned if you take these stories to other groups and platforms!!!

Don't let them find u

 

[NaomiHoney]

#ADMINPOST

How these girls trying to get fame of other people misery and dhibaato referring to the anonymous post. That are sent to us admins by girls that ONLY want their story sent here for the sisters to advice them. If y'all don't have nothing else going on for yourself wax isku taar explore your talents don't think you can feed off someone else misery and make it into your stardom. Meel naga faadiiso gabdho because you will get banned if you take these stories to other groups and platforms!!!

Don't let them find u

they'll never find me

 

[dhegdheer]

#ADMINPOST

How these girls trying to get fame of other people misery and dhibaato referring to the anonymous post. That are sent to us admins by girls that ONLY want their story sent here for the sisters to advice them. If y'all don't have nothing else going on for yourself wax isku taar explore your talents don't think you can feed off someone else misery and make it into your stardom. Meel naga faadiiso gabdho because you will get banned if you take these stories to other groups and platforms!!!

Don't let them find u

They know

 

[VixR]

I agree with @DiricLover, @Laila the proper thing to do would be to stop and let this thread die. It's not right.

On another note, fuckkk all these stories of marriage, mayne. What a freaking shit-fest wallahi.

 

[NaomiHoney]

I agree with @DiricLover, @Laila the proper thing to do would be to stop and let this thread die. It's not right.

On another note, fuckkk all these stories of marriage, mayne. What a freaking shit-fest wallahi.

Abayo please post this for my friend anonymously.....

Am in my 20s and there is a great guy in my life.... of course he isn't perfect neither am I.... but he wants us to get married and build a life together.... I want to be with him butttt here is the issue am not a big fan of marriage I didn't personally experience any negative thing to make me feel this way.... I mean I seen men mistreat women here and there but nothing to the point where I hesitate to tight the knot... Don't ask what my problem is cuz I don't know exactly what it is Wallahi..... maybe I am scared of the D..: and trust me I need the D in my life...did any of you married sister ever felt this way before you got married .....

 

[Kalshaale]

Abayo please post this for my friend anonymously.....

Am in my 20s and there is a great guy in my life.... of course he isn't perfect neither am I.... but he wants us to get married and build a life together.... I want to be with him butttt here is the issue am not a big fan of marriage I didn't personally experience any negative thing to make me feel this way.... I mean I seen men mistreat women here and there but nothing to the point where I hesitate to tight the knot... Don't ask what my problem is cuz I don't know exactly what it is Wallahi..... maybe I am scared of the D..: and trust me I need the D in my life...did any of you married sister ever felt this way before you got married .....

What do girls mean by "He isn't perfect and NEITHER AM I?"

 

[VixR]

Abayo please post this for my friend anonymously.....

Am in my 20s and there is a great guy in my life.... of course he isn't perfect neither am I.... but he wants us to get married and build a life together.... I want to be with him butttt here is the issue am not a big fan of marriage I didn't personally experience any negative thing to make me feel this way.... I mean I seen men mistreat women here and there but nothing to the point where I hesitate to tight the knot... Don't ask what my problem is cuz I don't know exactly what it is Wallahi..... maybe I am scared of the D..: and trust me I need the D in my life...did any of you married sister ever felt this way before you got married .....

Reading these stories, the word marriage gives me vertigo.

 

[Zuleikha]

Abayo please post this for my friend anonymously.....

Am in my 20s and there is a great guy in my life.... of course he isn't perfect neither am I.... but he wants us to get married and build a life together.... I want to be with him butttt here is the issue am not a big fan of marriage I didn't personally experience any negative thing to make me feel this way.... I mean I seen men mistreat women here and there but nothing to the point where I hesitate to tight the knot... Don't ask what my problem is cuz I don't know exactly what it is Wallahi..... maybe I am scared of the D..: and trust me I need the D in my life...did any of you married sister ever felt this way before you got married .....

Why is she scared of the D if she needs it in her life? She is horny AF naagta hoostaa cun cunaysaa

 

[Yannie]

As you wish.

Please be thoughtful with what you give as advice this sister is very devastated and scared so advice her the most kind way possible*

Hi abayo I am so embarrassed to be sharing this. I am so nervous about someone finding out my true identity because my story is serious. I do not have anyone else to talk to about this situation. Pls post it in the group for me so that my sisters may advise me. Pls let them know that this is a true story and probably happening to many sisters. Jazakallah Kheyr

Ladies pls believe me and do not think I am making this up. I have been married for a little under a year. I met my husband 2 years ago and instantly fell in love with him. He is religious, kind, generous, and everything I always wanted in a man. He is very accomplished and has his dream job. He is also very religious, knows so much about the deen, finished the quran, can name every hadith and is well respected in our city. I am currently in a doctor of nursing program and will be graduating in Spring of 2017 inshallah. My husband is a family man and is very romantic Mashallah. He buys me what ever I want and spoils me so much. My family loves him.

The problem is that my husband is a sexual sadist. Right after we got married this guy started to act strangely in the bedroom. He started to be very rough and started biting me. I was very confused at first and tried to go along with it but that was a bad idea. He got more aggressive physically and the sex actually started to hurt. He even choked me a couple of times and I thought I was dying in one instance. Wallahi I was so scared that I went to my sister’s house for a couple of days to gather my thoughts. He apologized and promised me it would not happen again. But not even two days later this guy slapped the life out of while we were having sex. He always states that he cannot control himself during sex. Wallahi I have developed anxiety when it comes to sex because I fear for my safety. He wants to have sex frequently but he always ends up doing something to me physically which is uncomfortable, painful, and/or scary. I can tell that he gets off on hurting me and seeing the pain in my eyes. Even his style of sex is so rough that I am sore down there for a couple of days. I know this is an uncomfortable topic but sisters please I need your advice. My husband is a great man who I love dearly but I have been so stressed due to my sex life that it is impacting my academic performance.

I get nervous and anxious every time he kisses me. I cannot count how many times I have actually cried after sex because of the pain I feel physically. Please give me your sincerest advice ladies. I do not know whether I should get a divorce. I have talked to him about how much he hurts me during sex and I have actually denied him so many times due to this but he gets so angry and says that its his right and I should not deny him. He has even threatened to divorce me or get a second wife if I refuse him. Even when I am menstruating this man will make me perform oral sex to satisfy him. I am at my wits end with him and his ways in the bedroom. I am even disgusted with myself. Jazakallah Sisters.

I forgot to mention that my husband is the son of a prominent Islamic leader who is very known in our community. My father was over joyed when he came to ask for my hand in marriage. I won't say too much about his family in order to maintain anonymity but that is one of the reasons I'm so hesitent about divorce and others finding out about my issue. Wallahi idk why I' feel ashamed, disgusted, and so little. Pls help me sisters I beg of you!

There is a simple solution for this problem. First the sister need to get into a sexy nurse costume. When her husband come home tease him and take into the bedroom and handcuff him to the head board. Then blind fold him and start kissing his neck and then say to him" oh baby,let me get some whipped cream so we can have some real fun". He is all excited and ish, that when you get the metal baseball bat and give that ass a good beating. Make sure you break some bones and make his sorry worthless ass bleed. After that, leave his naked beaten body handcuffed to the head board. Problem solved .