AKh Tuff, absolutely not walal.
No offense to gay men, they prefer their own gender anyways... but I don't need a feminine man.
I need a MANLY man. Very masculine and secure with himself to let me take control of certain things (Finances). A masculine man who is genuinely comfortable with his maleness will never be aggressive towards women and submits to them.
That's why I respect certain cultures like the Japanese. The men make the money and hand their checks over to their wives who manage it for them. That's why they have such a great functioning country. Look at the countries where men try to dominate women... literal shitholes unless they're lucky with resources.