Man up and marry a 40 year old sxb.While Dr. Qadhi he is quite eloquent, he is wrong. This man stated that he didn't believe in the Yajuj and Majuj still being alive today, which is in complete contradiction to Surah Kahf. Changing Khadija's RA age is Arab revisionism, just like the Arab revisionists who changed Aisha RA into a child when in reality she was closer to 16-19 at the time of her marriage.