its the other way around, with the exception of black women every other woman usually prefers white men over their own. men of colour may also prefer white women but its rare to see that pairing date/marry due to white women not liking them.
generally men don't give a shit about race, if shes hot then its cool. a few darkskin guys cooning for white women doesn't mean anything when the majority marry black women. with women(nonblack) they'd likely prefer a guy of european descent. women are more likely to be affected by eurocentric standards and end up selfhating thus seeing white men as superior.
thats why on dating apps white men are seen more with other races of women, while white women strongly prefer their own.
although okcupid stats on this are a bit old but they give a decent outline on this topic
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can't really find anymore up to date stats about racial preference, but its common knowledge that women on dating apps generally prefer white men.
this isn't about me, my opinions on light/dark doesn't matter.
yes brainwashing is the point of colonisation. if the majority of the world believes lightskin is better than darkskin which they already do then we've all been brainwashed.