Why is there such a high rate of divorce amongst young Somali couples? Simple: Because they don't and never loved each other. The fact that it takes just minor issues and disagreements, that could be resolved by just simply talking to each other and not being prideful and not being afraid of admitting they're wrong, they throw in the towl and call it quits. That speaks for itself. When there's no real love in the relationship, then there's no reason to work through the problems and issues at hand, and walking away seems the better, easier option.
For example, i know of this guy. He literally married some woman, he doesn't really love, so that he could be able to have sex halal. This is the mentality at hand.
Another thing thats part of the problem are the in-laws. Instead of them encouraging their son or daughter to be a good spous, and to have patient with their other half and work through the problems, they stir sh*t up. They'll talk about how the other person, is a terrible husband or wife, how they're married to an irresponsible immature person, possibly bring up clannist bullcrap, and other poisonous venom, to break up the marriage.
These are the reasons for high divorce rates amongst young Somali couples. It has nothing to do with wether or not, the woman was raised in the West or back home. And to say this is the reason why, is absolutely ridiculous.
For example, i know of this guy. He literally married some woman, he doesn't really love, so that he could be able to have sex halal. This is the mentality at hand.
Another thing thats part of the problem are the in-laws. Instead of them encouraging their son or daughter to be a good spous, and to have patient with their other half and work through the problems, they stir sh*t up. They'll talk about how the other person, is a terrible husband or wife, how they're married to an irresponsible immature person, possibly bring up clannist bullcrap, and other poisonous venom, to break up the marriage.
These are the reasons for high divorce rates amongst young Somali couples. It has nothing to do with wether or not, the woman was raised in the West or back home. And to say this is the reason why, is absolutely ridiculous.
