So man still has a curfew

[Phiirso]

why he still living at home? Hes 22, he should be done with University.

Guys like that get dominated and have small brains

I don't know about small brains, but dude needs his own place asap. Somali parents are smothering as hell

 

[Odkac WRLD]

You're a neef walle. It’s his parents home why you acting like he lives with strangers. I feel like this dude balls haven’t dropped yet or why else would his parents treat him like this. It makes no sense.18 year olds are out there living life and this dude is 22 with curfew at 21:00

It’s fucked up but what can he do?
He’s a grown man living rent free!

 

[Gambar]

You're a neef walle. It’s his parents home why you acting like he lives with strangers. I feel like this dude balls haven’t dropped yet or why else would his parents treat him like this. It makes no sense.18 year olds are out there living life and this dude is 22 with curfew at 21:00

If he’s doing nothing, not going to school, working or contributing then I can see why. What if he lives in a bad area? They’re looking out for him as parents. Xumaan maaha.

 

[Figo]

If he’s doing nothing, not going to school, working or contributing then I can see why. What if he lives in a bad area? They’re looking out for him as parents. Xumaan maaha.

22 year old doing not going to school or work? Ma xanuusan yahey?

I’d understand if he lived in a bad neighborhood and his parents didn’t want him to join the bad kids in the neighborhood but OP didn’t mention any of that.

 

[karkaar]

Lol having a curfew of 9:00pm at 22 is kinda extreme.I'd say I have strict parents but they don't worry about time unless I have an excuse.Im 20 and since about 17 I've been out till about 3-4am many times(not too often tho), each time I was met with a lecture and naxdin.You've got to put yourself in your parents shoes, they are constantly worrying about you.On the other hand I think every guy needs a rebellious age where they challenge the boundaries and hence create new boundaries.For me that was 17 and 18,especially 18 since I got a car, was making more money and travelled about an hour to UNI.As a Man U need freedom but theres limits,nolosha lama adkeeyo,if you're out late at least call your parents and tell them what you're doing so that they know you're safe.You wont understand the peace of mind that gives until you're a parent.

 

[Xasusi]

Your mom will always baby you, you as a man have to set boundaries.

As for you father, stop being a pussy. Your dad was wild when he was your age. Probably lived alone since he was 15 in Somalia.

 

[Gambar]

22 year old doing not going to school or work? Ma xanuusan yahey?

I’d understand if he lived in a bad neighborhood and his parents didn’t want him to join the bad kids in the neighborhood but OP didn’t mention any of that.

Malaa? Somalis are mostly lenient with the boys. I never had a curfew when I was in Somalia (Somaliland) as an 18 year old even though my parents were extra paranoid so it’s kinda shocking to hear that a 22 year old man had one over here.

 

[Abdisamad]

22 years old and curfew at 21:00? This dude is gonna have a curfew at 30 if this continues.

Instead of facing the real world dude has hoyo tucking him into bed.

 

[Figo]

Eedo Gambar is trying defend this action.

 

[Abdisamad]

Eedo Gambar is trying defend this action.

This is a true crime sxb

 

[Abdisamad]

Malaa? Somalis are mostly lenient with the boys. I never had a curfew when I was in Somalia (Somaliland) as an 18 year old even though my parents were extra paranoid so it’s kinda shocking to hear that a 22 year old man had one over here.

Gambar are you qaldaan

 

[Gambar]

Eedo Gambar is trying defend this action.

I’m not defending it. At that point, just tell him to leave. A lot of the stuff Somali parents do is due to paranoia and it’s unreasonable. I’m just giving the parents possible point of view. Like I said, most are lenient towards boys, so this story sounds kinda like khudhafaad.

 

[Gambar]

Gambar are you qaldaan

That’s not a nice term to use.

 

[Abdisamad]

That’s not a nice term to use.

Sorry but aren't you a puntlander.

 

[Gambar]

Sorry but aren't you a puntlander.

Dee haa.

 

[Abdisamad]

@CaliTedesse
I'm speechless if this is true

 

[Abdisamad]

Dee haa.

But you grew up in somaliland.. Ok cool walal.

 

[Gambar]

But you grew up in somaliland.. Ok cool walal.

No I didn’t grow up there alhamdulilah.

 

[Figo]

Gambar are you qaldaan

She reminds me of my cousins who’s reer abti are Isaaq.


As long as it’s not konfuurian dialect waa caadi.

 

[Al-Burcaawi]

And here I thought coming home at 12.30am was early