Butthurt atheist gunning for my throat already. I'm not gonna take the bait and go into several hour debate of subjective and objective morals, its been done to death already.
I've said this before that you can't really guarantee that your kids won't turn into degenerates. Even if you do X,Y,Z they can still turn out trash, (see white liberal parent households and hoejabis).
Nobody came "gunning" for you, you're the one that made a claim about us and I reacted. What did you expect, that you can say whatever you want and not expect rebuttals?
Well if you don't want to get into a debate, then you shouldn't initiate one. The debate has been made and the points were made and thus you shouldn't make claims that have already been answered if you don't want to go through them again.
As for your last point, you've basically made the obvious point. Nobody, neither an atheist nor a religious person, can guarantee that their children will not be "degenerates". Furthermore, the reality of the matter is that societies who don't follow religious values but instead follow secular values tend to do better than religious societies. I mean, is anyone really going to argue that Muslim societies are somehow superior to secular societies when comparing the two? At least, nobody who lives in the west can make such arguments.
Western society has laid the foundations for the moral values that are upheld by international law today. In fact, most countries strive to achieve the standards of the west. (Note: I'm talking about the current western society and not the previous ones. I have to point that out just in case you throw around the history nonsense).
The answer is less totalitarianism not more. Otherwise you will risk fetishising the very thing you don't want them to engage in 
