Somali culture is too harsh on women

[Cityviews]

Thank you so much for being honest. I’ve been saying those diasporas going abroad are waste of spaces bringing more problems

Most are essentially useless and I expect nothing from them.

 

[catwoman]

It's an evil benefit, every time I go to Africa, I spend half my pocket money feeding street kids and homeless women, I stopped feeding most homeless men because they would just use the money to go buy jaad with.

I would even use my family name to stop idiot locals from oppressing minorities and non somalis like innocent oromo kids wallahi. I did this as a teenager on my first trip, but those ex hoodrats living in exile in Somalia couldn't do that in 5-6 years f*ck them. How can anyone see a homeless 8 year old and just bully them and call them dark/ugly etc, wtf is wrong with these people?

My plan is to one day do a lot of good back home and when I die, inshallah give it to minorities and oppressed people there. I don't know why our people are so cruel to others, but come to America/Canada/UK and cry about being a fucking minority. I think Allah is punishing Somalia for their cruelty against others wallahi.

Lol Those hood rats piss me the f*ck off just stay in Europe/America pls and leave the locals out of it. I legit thought the same all that injustice and we wonder why we are in this position but There are so many good people just trying to live though

Amazing. Inshallah you are successful and may Allah help you in everything you do.

 

[Ahmed321]

Yes.

If men emulated the prophet, we wouldn't have all the problems we have.
You have men on here constantly arguing with women and trying to compete with them, forgetting that Allah created Adam first and then Hawa from Adam.

Men are here to lead us, provide for us and protect us!

NOT insult us or make us work in the hot sun during the day like a manual labourer and then work in the house.

Allah sees all injustice and will deal with it. That's it for me in this topic.

What is your solution to solve this problem so we all can move forward?

 

[Finesse]

What is your solution to solve this problem so we all can move forward?

Return to Islam!

If people followed the Sunnah of the prophet Muhammed SAW, we would instantly become a normal nation again. I am convinced of this.

Our forefathers were so wealthy that they used to donate to Saudi Arabia (before they got their hands on Oil). Our men are wasting their wealth on khat or tea in coffee shops instead of spending their money on worthy causes/businesses.

We have lost our way and our pride, only Allah can save us at this point.

 

[Cityviews]

Return to Islam!

If people followed the Sunnah of the prophet Muhammed SAW, we would instantly become a normal nation again. I am convinced of this.

Our forefathers were so wealthy that they used to donate to Saudi Arabia (before they got their hands on Oil). Our men are wasting their wealth on khat or tea in coffee shops instead of spending their money on worthy causes/businesses.

We have lost our way and our pride, only Allah can save us at this point.

My people used to export water to the Arabs cause they had none I will make a thread on this soon.

We Wuz Aquafina wallahi

 

[911]

I can only speak about what I saw in Somalia.

Anytime I saw a diaspora dude in the suuq that I wanted to make a business with,or just hang and talk to ( Its somalia thats what you do)

I realized (99%) they were all ex gangster trash living off their mother's/fathers remittance from over seas. Some have been living in Somalia for over 5 years, yet did not

• Help any street kids
• empower women
• give to charity
• teach anyone english
• create business/jobs
• go to school

Thw 1% that weren't like that, were living off nepotism and had a government job ( through nepotism), and were maintaining the same oppressive system.

What I saw was guys who were nothing in the diaspora ( The 99%), go to africa and decide to just oppress others, and feel like they have power for once. How can you ask a bakhti to give that up after being locked up in jail in America/Canada/UK and being called ******?

If they did teach a kid english, they taught them swear words like , f*ck you etc.

That's the exact moment when I realized Somali women will save Somalia.

When I start my business in Africa, I'm making all my managers women wallahi. In fact in Somalia, all the businesses accountants/ the person who manages the books etc are women because they are the only ones who won't steal it for jaad.

Somalia will be saved by the Somali female diaspora, and educated Somali guys back home tired of the bullshit.

I saw the same thing, the behaviour of daqaan celis kids was shameful.

 

[911]

Women in Somalia are living in a nightmare. They have to work, go home and take care of their kids (usually 5+ kids) have to undergo FGM as kids and face the same threats as Somali men (al shabaab, bombings) along with the added threat of rape.
May Allah help them.

 

[hindhisle]

Yes.

If men emulated the prophet, we wouldn't have all the problems we have.
You have men on here constantly arguing with women and trying to compete with them, forgetting that Allah created Adam first and then Hawa from Adam.

Men are here to lead us, provide for us and protect us!

NOT insult us or make us work in the hot sun during the day like a manual labourer and then work in the house.

Allah sees all injustice and will deal with it. That's it for me in this topic.

Shameful anti-feminist rant.

 

[Ahmed321]

Return to Islam!

If people followed the Sunnah of the prophet Muhammed SAW, we would instantly become a normal nation again. I am convinced of this.

Our forefathers were so wealthy that they used to donate to Saudi Arabia (before they got their hands on Oil). Our men are wasting their wealth on khat or tea in coffee shops instead of spending their money on worthy causes/businesses.

We have lost our way and our pride, only Allah can save us at this point.

I could be wrong but isn't Somalia already 99.9% Muslims already?
Some of us blame the Islam when it come to Somalia that's when everything went wrong for the Somalis?

As for me i see the Somalis don't see themselves the same people their identify themselves as a clans and tribe and fighting over the territory. Also looting from other clans territory is part of their culture this is well known in Somali historical. Perhaps this is a old habit of Somalis subconsciously behavior and repeating itself.

 

[Mercury]

I can only speak about what I saw in Somalia.

Anytime I saw a diaspora dude in the suuq that I wanted to make a business with,or just hang and talk to ( Its somalia thats what you do)

I realized (99%) they were all ex gangster trash living off their mother's/fathers remittance from over seas. Some have been living in Somalia for over 5 years, yet did not

• Help any street kids
• empower women
• give to charity
• teach anyone english
• create business/jobs
• go to school

Thw 1% that weren't like that, were living off nepotism and had a government job ( through nepotism), and were maintaining the same oppressive system.

What I saw was guys who were nothing in the diaspora ( The 99%), go to africa and decide to just oppress others, and feel like they have power for once. How can you ask a bakhti to give that up after being locked up in jail in America/Canada/UK and being called ******?

If they did teach a kid english, they taught them swear words like , f*ck you etc.

That's the exact moment when I realized Somali women will save Somalia.

When I start my business in Africa, I'm making all my managers women wallahi. In fact in Somalia, all the businesses accountants/ the person who manages the books etc are women because they are the only ones who won't steal it for jaad.

Somalia will be saved by the Somali female diaspora, and educated Somali guys back home tired of the bullshit.

When I was in Somaliland I saw similar stuff there where good guys who went back and where humble and helped people but there where many diaspora who where sent there for dhaqan celis they where worse

Flaunting the little handouts their parents sent them always speaking in English Imagine how tragic it is to see a grown man with all opportunities handed to him and lives back home on remittance

There was even one guy on tv who was interviewed he was from Sweden this guy dropped school at 14 turned to crime and was in prison for stabbing 3 guys 2 of them in the chest and 3rd guy in the stomach after prison he went back to Somaliland

He was cursing Sweden and how bad it is living there as an immigrant lack of jobs and prospects

Now in Sweden education is free university everything and jobs can be landed with the right resume or through friends, acquaintances but it’s hard to land a job with a criminal background majority wont hire you

Anyway this guy Lives in Somaliland got two wives and living on money his aunt from Sweden sends him

 

[Mercury]

why is it women in Somalia are being so masculinized? It’s so sad seeing a mother in jilbab carrying a gun or working in construction. And I’m tired of people praising this as how strong and independent somali women are or use this to score points against other muslim cultures ( at least our women are independent yada yada) in reality this is nothing short of extreme oppression. Women are forced to do both traditionally feminine roles as the mother/ housewives along with rearing livestock and maintaining beeraha and now you see the women doing all these masculine things while wearing full jilbab! even their faces are losing femininity as all the women look harsh and beaten down.

The thing is a lot of Somalis praise Somali women for being so strong they wake up 5 in the morning prepare breakfast and clean the whole house and than on top of that go to school or work and come back from school and do more work in the house

All of this goes under appreciated People take it all for granted and just expected

Only reason it’s like this is
Because Somali girls been raised from a young age to handle an entire household by themselves they know the duty and responsibility that goes in taking care of a family

This same responsibility isn’t felt by a lot of Somali guys who will sit back in the driver seat while the woman takes charge and leads

 

[Tukraq]

It’s exist where women are the provider warya

Need to open your eyes why odayasha (excluding taxi drivers) at cafe during in work hours (11am to 3pm)

They make enough money and that’s there free time dummy the odaayal I see at the coffee shop are usually filthy rich ie own cab companies that hire all those Somalis working hard in taxis I’ve never seen a Somali women that’s a provider other than single moms after divorce with an ajanibi

 

[Mercury]

Back home guys are lazy and don’t have any sense of shame at all I mean people will sit and wait for the dinner to be served to them and when they’re finished will leave the plates and Mess they made as if the place is a restaurant

I remember every little household chore I helped with there was always
one Guy telling me to leave it to the girls

Only reason is because they want things to remain like it is where women do the household chores while guys just chill

And the other reason is they dont want to look bad

I believe Household chores shouldnt be divided by gender everybody should learn it because it Will teach you responsibility and prepare you for adulthood

Besided its one neglected sunnah many somalis forget helping around the house cooking and cleaning is what the prophet (scw) used to do

 

[Schematics]

Women in Saudi have the support of men (buying them Ferrari’s and shit) but are running away due to lack of freedom
Women in the west are running from freedom to Dubai and Saudi for financial support(escorts) women are the most fickle creatures a country as poor as Somalia usually has all the children as child prostitutes elsewhere but we protect our women let them get education freedom and do as they please

Best oral defense I have read so far. You can't imagine how many times I was grounded, denied soccer time, or got beaten for making my sister complain about me, sometimes falsely knowing I would be in the dog house. I lived in terror sometimes. We were raised not to raise a finger or say anything bad to females, because they were females.

Nowadays, they call you daddy and you call them my and they love it. The irony saxib.

 

[Leila]

They make enough money and that’s there free time dummy the odaayal I see at the coffee shop are usually filthy rich ie own cab companies that hire all those Somalis working hard in taxis I’ve never seen a Somali women that’s a provider other than single moms after divorce with an ajanibi

We are talking about Somalis back home. The truth is the backbone of society is the Somali mother . It’s the mother who is holding the family together, running her own business, sending the children to school, cooking, cleaning , taking care of grandchildren. And if they live in south Somalia they have to deal with the constant threat of bombings, lack of infrastructure, lack of health services etc etc.

 

[Finesse]

I could be wrong but isn't Somalia already 99.9% Muslims already?
Some of us blame the Islam when it come to Somalia that's when everything went wrong for the Somalis?

As for me i see the Somalis don't see themselves the same people their identify themselves as a clans and tribe and fighting over the territory. Also looting from other clans territory is part of their culture this is well known in Somali historical. Perhaps this is a old habit of Somalis subconsciously behavior and repeating itself.

Muslim but in action? Hmmm.

 

[HIGH PRIESTESS]

I can't speak to the stable income part. I didn't see that when I went back home but money remittance has made people very lazy and ungrateful. The women take care of the home and the men do...nothing. I always wonder what they're going to do when Millenial & generation Z Somalis refuse to send money.

Hopefully when the westernised future generations refuse to send money it’ll be a wake up call to the locals who have gone lazy off of remittances.

 

[Ahmed321]

Hopefully when the westernised future generations refuse to send money it’ll be a wake up call to the locals who have gone lazy off of remittances.

Famines will return part 2

 

[Cityviews]

The thing is a lot of Somalis praise Somali women for being so strong they wake up 5 in the morning prepare breakfast and clean the whole house and than on top of that go to school or work and come back from school and do more work in the house

All of this goes under appreciated People take it all for granted and just expected

Only reason it’s like this is
Because Somali girls been raised from a young age to handle an entire household by themselves they know the duty and responsibility that goes in taking care of a family

This same responsibility isn’t felt by a lot of Somali guys who will sit back in the driver seat while the woman takes charge and leads

Yooooo, one of the funniest conversations I had was with taxi drivers in somalia saying ‘yeah the white man is evil they are locking up all our boys for no reason and they gotta escape to somalia’

I died and ask them if that’s the lie those 30 year old dhaqan Celis told them loool , I had to explain that wasn’t true and they are fucking criminals. Waa waali.

 

[Schematics]

Hopefully when the westernised future generations refuse to send money it’ll be a wake up call to the locals who have gone lazy off of remittances.

Yooooo, one of the funniest conversations I had was with taxi drivers in somalia saying ‘yeah the white man is evil they are locking up all our boys for no reason and they gotta escape to somalia’

I died and ask them if that’s the lie those 30 year old dhaqan Celis told them loool , I had to explain that wasn’t true and they are fucking criminals. Waa waali.

He is right. People of color can be arrested on the flimsiest charges and police officers make up offenses on the book to meet an arrest quota. This massive book cooking in the criminal Justice brings in revenue for police, judges and state lawyers. If this injustice does not happen to a Somali, it happens to African American males, Latino and poor whites afflicted with addiction. America is a massive Savage hellhole for many.

Read newspapers please.