Somali dudes and Non-Muslim Partners (Sorry for the essay)!!

[Abdirazaq]

"They can find older men then if they're struggling to find financially stable men their age, whats the issue. They also can find someone they think has potential and can grow with them, there's plenty of choices for women."

Majority of young women prefer to be with someone within their age range.

Women prefer older men and on average marry men 3 years older even with Cadaans, on top of that its not that rare to find women with men 5, 7, 9 etc years older than they are.

"If and buts are stupid hypothesis especially when you consider that older people get divorced too, young people shouldn't get married due to divorce is the stupidest thing I've ever heard."

The commitment itself is not what I'm against. It's the fact that a lot of young couples have kids.

They don't have to have children, they can plan on having children later down the line, whats important is for them to get married.

Young single moms have horrible dating pools and a lot of young marriages end in divorce.

I don't believe that younger married women with kids have horrible dating pools, there's plenty of men willing to be with them if they look around, they'll find decent men.

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These statistics show those who got married younger have more divorces only due to women having a worse taste in terms of who they pick at that age, a mahram being involved in a young women choice in terms of suitable partners would lower the risk of them picking bad men, show me statistics of Muslim marriages, ages and divorces and not gaalo type relationships.

 

[Kisame]

Women prefer older men and on average marry men 3 years older even with Cadaans, on top of that its not that rare to find women with men 5, 7, 9 etc years older than they are.

They don't have to have children, they can plan on having children later down the line, whats important is for them to get married.

I don't believe that younger married women with kids have horrible dating pools, there's plenty of men willing to be with them if they look around, they'll find decent men.

These statistics show those who got married younger have more divorces only due to women having a worse taste in terms of who they pick at that age, a mahram being involved in a young women choice in terms of suitable partners would lower the risk of them picking bad men, show me statistics of Muslim marriages, ages and divorces and not gaalo type relationships.

"women with men 5, 7, 9 etc years older than they are."

These women are usually with men that are significantly healthier than them. We simply just don't have a bunch of high value older bachelors just lying around. Most of these guys get married quick. Also I'm mostly taking about women between the ages of 18-22. Most men within their age range are usually broke or building themselves up.

"They don't have to have children, they can plan on having children later down the line, whats important is for them to get married."

A lot of these young couples end up having kids though.

"I don't believe that younger married women with kids have horrible dating pools, there's plenty of men willing to be with them if they look around, they'll find decent men."

Yeah but we live in the West. A young chick with kids would struggle to find a decent partner Muslim partner around her age. We don't have a bunch of young Muslim single fathers roaming around in the west.