Somali guys have some blame in this. I knew a guy who was dealing with his boys sister, he told his boy afterwards I heard your sister gets about even though he was the one with her Somali guys gossip too much and the girl doesn't want a ruined rep that could f*ck up a potential future marriage. So they're careful. If you wanna mess about it'd be easier with an ajnabi. Look for Somali girls when you wanna get married