Somali guy tells me I would be perfect if I was a virgin

[Arbe QalanjLa'aan]

Buddy, hurdada ka kac. We have to be realistic. Marriage is a business based off of a point system.There are things that bring your points down.

Prior sexual experience
Being ugly
Being short (for women being too tall)
Being broke(for women being dark)
Qabiil

I dont have time for your calacal. You either understand it or you dont. Know your role and you status is all i ask.

Do somali girls generally care if their potential dude isn't a virgin? If he has his life together and isn't ratchet

 

[Bohol]

A man that's a hoe is 100% carrying every goddamn sexually transmitted disease out there but just happens to still be alive. To prove his virginity all you need to do is get him checked. Khalaas! Problem solved! Now society will treat us all as equals insha'allah.

Testing should be mandatory when marrying someone anyway. No one is going to mention he banged a lot of chicks out of shame
though, more like "he is a G the amount of women he slept with" . Now, we both know no woman will get praised for being
a hoe Lol in comparison.

 

[Dangopopcorn]

A man that's a hoe is 100% carrying every goddamn sexually transmitted disease out there but just happens to still be alive. To prove his virginity all you need to do is get him checked. Khalaas! Problem solved! Now society will treat us all as equals insha'allah.

If you don't shame a man about his body count he won't lie because there no reason to
Just ask politely

 

[SenseSays]

Some dudes have no stds and a body count in the 20s

Get a DNA thing done, he probs has kids out there. Problem solved.

 

[Arbe QalanjLa'aan]

I've never been attracted to non Somali men. But i see that I need to start considering other options.

I generally wouldn't be about this, but I think if you really can't find any decent somali guys then it's only fair that you look outside the tent, so to speak

 

[Mohamud]

Get a DNA thing done, he probs has kids out there. Problem solved.

/mauryshow

 

[Arbe QalanjLa'aan]

Then why are you saying men are judgemental when according to your "point marriage system " youre further down the scale? Is it not your own fault? Why act like it's the men's fault for following the point marriage system

Short men according to you are further down the system alongside you but you don't see them making threads calling women judgemental

They do make threads, it's just hard to hear them all the way down there with their shrill voices

 

[SenseSays]

Testing should be mandatory when marrying someone anyway. No one is going to mention he banged a lot of chicks out of shame
though, more like "he is a G the amount of women he slept with" . Now, we both know no woman will get praised for being
a hoe Lol in comparison.

If a guy has a body count in the double digits, honest to god question.... would he actually be loyal? I'm sure he wouldn't, that's the kind of dude that's used to the single life. Can't expect a guy to change his ways.

 

[Bohol]

If a guy has a body count in the double digits, honest god question.... would he actually be loyal? I'm sure he wouldn't, that's the kind of dude that's used to the single life. Can't expect a guy to change his ways.

Even a guy like that will have some women wanting to marry him. Since we know there is a lot of women who like trying to
"fix" bad boys, however they are just fooling themselves, old habits die hard aka leopards don't change their spots. Got to
love naive blondie type females though they are how every guy gets laid.

 

[Dangopopcorn]

Do somali girls generally care if their potential dude isn't a virgin? If he has his life together and isn't ratchet

I can't be with a man that isn't chaste. I'm OK with a mistake here n there if you truly repented and been ok ever since but otherwise no
Been proposed to before by a hoe
You want to act like the town bicycle and then turn around and offer me a ride?, I'm good

 

[Arbe QalanjLa'aan]

You want to act like the town bicycle

Well who wants you anyways,

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[TheLibertarianQuiche]

You cant be honest with men these days. Just got to lie about having your hymen in tact. Sick of judgemental men

I don't honestly mind women who aren't virgin because it isn't my business but if she was giving head and getting cummed on 24/7 behind Macca's then I have a problem.

Ileen I don't want AIDS.

 

[SenseSays]

to a guy who's a virgin but short.

Why did I just catch this? Lmfao.

Been proposed to before by a hoe
You want to act like the town bicycle and then turn around and offer me a ride?, I'm good

 

[Dangopopcorn]

Well who wants you anyways,

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Give your back a break abti

 

[Arbe QalanjLa'aan]

I can't be with a man that isn't chaste. I'm OK with a mistake here n there if you truly repented and been ok ever since but otherwise no
Been proposed to before by a hoe
You want to act like the town bicycle and then turn around and offer me a ride?, I'm good

Reading this I'm tempted to lie to a halimo, but my skills will give me away. And plus not like I can't find another one more amenable to my experience

 

[Arbe QalanjLa'aan]

Give your back a break abti

I was thinking I've give your back a break first

 

[SenseSays]

@Arbe QalanjLa'aan @Dangopopcorn take it to the DMs.

 

[Bernie Madoff]

I was thinking I've give your back a break first

 

[VixR]

If a guy has a body count in the double digits, honest god question.... would he actually be loyal? I'm sure he wouldn't, that's the kind of dude that's used to the single life. Can't expect a guy to change his ways.

I think it's fair to judge the sexual background of the person you're planning on being with based on the nature of their previous relationships, their quality and circumstance, how long the relationships lasted, how they relate, and their body count, etc, but basic virginity...eh. It's a poor indicator to base your matchability off of. Whether it happens within the confines of a marriage or outside it, once virginity is lost, there's the equal footing of having awakened the sexual self with a fairly indeterminate slate on how that'll manifest itself, but some mistakingly think it makes some profound difference, or perhaps they view it as a sort of privilege/leverage to have been their wife's first, or maybe it's just plain reinforcement through a skewed ceeb culture.

For me, it's body count: High Priority.
Virginity: Irrelevant.

How and when they lost their virginity, and what came after, is of greater relevance and importance than that they lost it.

 

[Cukaash]

Reading this I'm tempted to lie to a halimo, but my skills will give me away. And plus not like I can't find another one more amenable to my experience

My skills will give me away. Kulahaa.

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