@CanadianQueen this is sincere advice from a muslim somali brother of yours.
Everybody has a past abaayo macanto. I see all the "males" in here have ganged up on you.
Hear from a fellow man.
Everybody has a past whether it is good bad or horrible...judging from your post you seem sincere(if youre not trolling that is) about getting advice but that kind of exposure is not wise on an internet forum like this. im sorry for my previous comments coz it came from a place of ignorance.
Now, i see you want to get married and the guys you are meeting have no right to aak you about your virginity if they are not very serious about marrying you and before you guys hit me with, "well how do you know if they are not serious if you dont tell them." well im assuming
@CanadianQueen is a grown ass educated woman who clearly has had experience with men to realize when a nigga isnt serious about marrying her.
@CanadianQueen queen abaayo chillax i for certainly believe this is a way of Allah protecting you from useless, qashin men.
And if you happen to meet a man you feel is very serious about marrying and he asks, id say dont lie to him, if he truely loves you and is very satisfied with you and you him then he will not wanna know how, when, where with who. He'd put a ring on your finger and never bring up your past. And if you get married and he doeant realize you dont have to tell him and dont feel guilty coz THE ALMIGHTY is on yoir side and has concealed you sins.
ABAAYO II BAASHAAL, NEVER LOOSE HOPE AND SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN YOU DESERVE.
I personally wouldnt wanna know about my wifes bad past as long as im satisfied with her religious commitment and her pleased with mine..
I be like "Lets make babbies."
