Somali man in MN kills his ex wife and the mother of his kids.

[Angelina]

We live in the UK so the system ain't as extreme over here. Men have went to jail for failing to pay child support. In America if you are paying child support more often than not your life is pretty much over unless you are well-off or rich. I am not justifying him taking the life of his child's mother but we don't know their circumstances that lead to this.

Lol, in a Muslim country a woman can sue you in Islamic courts for not paying mehr and if she pays out pocket expenses you were meant to pay, she can also sue you.

Your job as a man is to provide. Imagine if women cried because they had to nurture children, but decided to abandon them and expected no punishement?

 

[Sloane Ranger]

We live in the UK so the system ain't as extreme over here. Men have went to jail for failing to pay child support. In America if you are paying child support more often than not your life is pretty much over unless you are well-off or rich. I am not justifying him taking the life of his child's mother but we don't know their circumstances that lead to this.

All that is relevant is the woman was killed. It sounds like you're making excuses for the murder. Child support is a percentage of earnings and most women don't marry rich men that pay large sums annually. Any man that refuses to support his own children after a breakup should be castrated. If he doesn't want to be responsible for their own upbringing then he shouldn't have children in the first place.

 

[Lord]

Psychological help would really help solve their arrogance.

He should never see a daylight again

 

[Sloane Ranger]

I never bashed the woman! AUN to her.

You're making excuses for the husband. Kulaha "we don't know what happened prior".

 

[Keo]

Lol, in a Muslim country a woman can sue you for not paying mehr and if she pays out pocket expenses you were meant to pay, she can also sue you.

Your job as a man is to provide. Imagine if women cried because they had to nurture children, but decided to abandon them and expected no punishement?

An Islamic system would have been much more fair. What I am speaking of is the American system pertaining to child support.

 

[Lord]

AUN to the women.

Child support should be illegal, I am glad my Ex-wife never put one me as she promised,

This only complicates things and add to their exisitong hatred. Life is more valubale.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

Coming from a Somali guy, this is downright nasty.

Some of their own aunts and mothers are working by washing the backside of elderly cadaans, because their husbands are not in the picture and these dusty fools want to act like these women are living in the lap of luxury!

Do these Abdis not know what community they are from?

I don't know any Somali man that has ever been sued for child support. The ones that don't pay are always ignored by the community. No-one ostracises him or tries to reason with him and get him to stepup to his responsibilities it's all fairytales they tell themselves whilst living in poverty.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

An Islamic system would have been much more fair. What I am speaking of is the American system pertaining to child support.

If a man pays up the amount he should after a divorce then their wouldn't even be a need for him to be taken to court. Believe it or not some guys are able to resolve this without this escalating to the courts system.

 

[Keo]

Coming from a Somali guy, this is downright nasty.

What Somali guy calls himself Angelina?

 

[Angelina]

What Somali guy calls himself Angelina?

No, i meant you. Coming from you.

I'm a woman.

 

[Angelina]

I don't know any Somali man that has ever been sued for child support. The ones that don't pay are always ignored by the community. No-one ostracises him or tries to reason with him and get him to stepup to his responsibilities it's all fairytales they tell themselves whilst living in poverty.

How do you think these men are able to bounce and marry again and forget all about their first family? They pay nothing, they do nothing. They do absolute nothing. Some of them even do that within their marriage without even divorcing their wife. They just go back home and forget they have a wife and kid somewhere.

We Somali women are too forgiving and accepting. That is the reason why these boys have such wayward views. They have seen women in their families suffer, but instead of feeling bad, they think this is the norm and its normal for men not to give a shit.

 

[Mercury]

Just because she demanded child support. He didn't want to pay child support so this killer, made a plan to kill her and flee the country, luckily they found him.

Source: MN local Somali gossip.

I don't know why the news are not reporting.

AUN thats heartless I will never understand a man that don't want to provide for his kids when not together with the wife no more

 

[Mercury]

I don't know any Somali man that has ever been sued for child support. The ones that don't pay are always ignored by the community. No-one ostracises him or tries to reason with him and get him to stepup to his responsibilities it's all fairytales they tell themselves whilst living in poverty.

Alot somali couples they do not register their marriage cause they don't want to deal with child support etc but what many ignore is that even in islam if you divorce your wife you are required to give her alimony for 2 years also you must provide for any off your kids

 

[Halimo-2018]

A so called man that doesn't want to provide for his own kids is dangerous selfish snake.may Allah protect us.

 

[Amirah]

Coming from a Somali guy, this is downright nasty.

Some of their own aunts and mothers are working by washing the backside of elderly cadaans, because their husbands are not in the picture and these dusty fools want to act like these women are living in the lap of luxury!

Do these Abdis not know what community they are from?

The worst part is the thread is about a woman who was murdered by her evil husband that chose to kill the mother of his children and instead of sympathising they choose to bash women instead.

Can you ladies believe some of the comments you’re reading here?!? What kinda human justifies the murder of a mother, a hooyo all because the State enforced the father to contribute to his own children’s living expense?!? Think about that for a second!?! Unjustified, undisputed, 100% xaq daro murder that’s a utterly, completely open & shut case has turn into a debate rather than a post of condolences. That’s all you need to know about the average Somali male’s mindset, nuff said!!!
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Proceed at your own risk!! ⛔️

 

[Royalflush]

AUN
the child support system there can be convoluted and more often than not people will take advantage. some women will claim unnecessary expenses just so they can xaasid on the man and then he will become deadbeat. seeing his kids grow up on his money but she barely lets him see the kids. @Angelina dont lie many women are salty af after being divorced theyll do anything to get back
drives a man crazy.

 

[Mercury]

Can you ladies believe some of the comments you’re reading here?!? What kinda human justifies the murder of a mother, a hooyo all because the State enforced the father to contribute to his own children’s living expense?!? Think about that for a second!?! Unjustified, undisputed, 100% xaq daro murder that’s a utterly, completely open & shut case has turn into a debate rather than a post of condolences. That’s all you need to know about the average Somali male’s mindset, nuff said!!!
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Proceed at your own risk!!

There's nothing that justifies this murder supporting your own kid thats an obligation not something you can walk away from and live life like you dont have any kids in after life he will be punished for it

 

[Mercury]

AUN
the child support system there can be convoluted and more often than not people will take advantage. some women will claim unnecessary expenses just so they can xaasid on the man and then he will become deadbeat. seeing his kids grow up on his money but she barely lets him see the kids. @Angelina dont lie many women are salty af after being divorced theyll do anything to get back
drives a man crazy.

Majority somali women don't even claim child support so how they gonna take advantage of it?

Alot of the times the man doesn't pay a single penny to his kids after the divorce

 

[Royalflush]

Majority somali women don't even claim child support so how they gonna take advantage of it?

Alot of the times the man doesn't pay a single penny to his kids after the divorce

maybe not in sweden where everything is free
but its common in the UK and USA where everything is expensive and the hooyos ayuuto wont raise her kids

 

[Mercury]

maybe not in sweden where everything is free
but its common in the UK and USA where everything is expensive and the hooyos ayuuto wont raise her kids

maybe its common to non somalis but its far far from common that a somali women demand child support majority don't