Somali men are trash

[Desert Flower]

Yeah it was really good, those Utah folks tried to poison him and still lost

I never thought I’d see the day that I’d watch a 10 part doc on MJ. But I couldn’t look away it was very good.

 

[Juke]

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It's true most Somali males in Toronto are lost, there's way less of us good ones compared to the girls. We have more choice.

 

[Duchess]

Some Somali girls in Toronto made this podcast I stumbled on it cause of an interesting ep on finance. I of course find a ep on Somali men being trash. Being 2 and a half years old aside I would really like to clear the air about something I have noticed that I don’t understand. A real blind spot.

How can these clout Xalimos be “woke” online but use the same right wing talking points that white politicians and racists use when referring to madow men, when they are talking about Somali men?

Like when she says that she doesn’t understand why Somali men her age compared to other Ajnabi men are dead/deal drugs/dropout/ are in jail. Even comparing them to Somali girls saying they are in school more and getting degrees more but asking why Somali men aren’t?

Asking why so many are failures in the west and specifically Canada since that’s where they seem to be from. What I don’t get is, isn’t this the argument racist white ppl use? That black men make up 8% of the population but 70% of violent crime and fill US prisons. We know why that’s the case everyone knows why that’s the case.

Unless you believe in early 20th century eugenics that some groups of ppl are genetically predisposed to crime and mental illness, or the other rightwing talking point that “fathers are missing.” You know exactly why this is happening. They growup in poverty and in a society that moulds them for failure at everystep of their life. From being poor and living in a bad neighbourhood filled with crime, racist schools and education systems that suspend black boys at 8x the rate as other boys for literally the same actions in schools. The labor force and how generally warped it is towards the dominant society and unlike the girls in these households they aren’t shielded from the realities of the world by living in lockdown until 18/19 and fall into the wrong crowd because they live in cheap neighborhoods filled with generations of poverty. There just aren’t as many female gangs with drug distribution networks and Xalimos are just better at fitting into non-black spaces tbh a lot are white washed and very good at code switching/dealing with micro aggressions and maneuvering racist institutions like public education.

The ajnabi men arguement doesn’t even make a lot of sense either. They didn’t leave a war torn country most immigrated here not seeking refugee status, with good education and their parents had well paying jobs/lived in the suburbs.

So why do these woke clout Xalimos understand that environment for Madow men and pretend like they are blind to these same isssues affecting so many Young Somali men and just use that to trash them as garbage? It doesn’t make any sense.

Women who talk like this will end up with trash Somali men because they’re toxic themselves. Listen to Sahra, she sounds like a hood rat. The host is projecting the failures of the Somali men she knows on to every Somali man. No sweetie Somali men are not trash, the Somali men in your social circle are trash and that is an individual experience.

There isn’t a epidemic of Somali men who are trash, there’s an epidemic of brainwashed idiots who are appropriating the absolute worst from AA culture. I’m so annoyed by this topic. It screams self-hatred.

 

[Sol]

How do you even find this?

 

[Basic]

It's true most Somali males in Toronto are lost, there's way less of us good ones compared to the girls. We have more choice.

Maybe it’s cause there isn’t as much Somalis in Canada. But in the uk I’ve never felt this lack of good somali guys. If anything there’s too much options

 

[Macalin M]

She’s right. Source: I am a Somali man and I am trash.

 

[Halimak]

Paradox of choice really. You think you have all these options, and end up choosing nothing.

I can see why the girls are frustrated now. A basic Abdi with reasonable good looks and a degree seems to be looked at as an anomaly. Of course some of these men will develop an ego the size of a football pitch. Girls aren't doing themselves any favours by throwing themselves at them.

 

[Basic]

@Mahacagalla I tried listening to the podcast but the accents annoyed me for some reason

 

[Juke]

Maybe it’s cause there isn’t as much Somalis in Canada. But in the uk I’ve never felt this lack of good somali guys. If anything there’s too much options

Relative to the girls, the guys aren't doing so well here. Many Somali girls at least get to uni. Somali dudes here become gangster bums or do low ceiling labour jobs.

Paradox of choice really. You think you have all these options, and end up choosing nothing.

As a man I can say most guys really enjoy the opportunity of sifting through their choices, if you know what I mean.

 

[Basic]

Relative to the girls, the guys aren't doing so well here. Many Somali girls at least get to uni. Somali dudes here become gangster bums or do low ceiling labour jobs.



As a man I can say most guys really enjoy the opportunity of sifting through their choices, if you know what I mean.

Over the past few years I have noticed an increase in North American xalimos marry uk faraxs

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Over the past few years I have noticed an increase in North American xalimos marry uk faraxs

More like the other way around.Just face it Uk is getting worst and the amount of times I hear of Uk Somalis dying to leave Uk to North America I lost count wallahi

 

[Basic]

More like the other way around.Just face it Uk is getting worst and the amount of times I hear of Uk Somalis dying to leave Uk to North America I lost count wallahi

Maybe the US. But no one is checking for CADnada.

Anyway that was my observation. Don’t know why you felt personally offended by that

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Maybe the US. But no one is checking for CADnada.

Anyway that was my observation. Don’t know why you felt personally offended by that

Didn’t felt offended I’m just speaking from what I noticed

 

[Mahacagalla]

I never thought I’d see the day that I’d watch a 10 part doc on MJ. But I couldn’t look away it was very good.

It was and I think it’s cause it was before our time so it lets us exp that time in sports history like it’s happening now.

 

[Halimak]

Maybe it’s cause there isn’t as much Somalis in Canada. But in the uk I’ve never felt this lack of good somali guys. If anything there’s too much options

Yep.

But it also depends on your generation. The under 25's are doing really good and I feel that Somali boys are finally back in the game. In the UK, its the older generation of girls that probably had a hard time trying to find a guy that fit with their requirements, also having a scarcity mindset doesn't help.

Relative to the girls, the guys aren't doing so well here. Many Somali girls at least get to uni. Somali dudes here become gangster bums or do low ceiling labour jobs.



As a man I can say most guys really enjoy the opportunity of sifting through their choices, if you know what I mean.

That is sad. A canadian friend of mine was telling me this. A lot of girls are 26+ and single, because of a lack of suitable options.

So seems to me you're a young eligible Somali guy, so why are you dating an Asian girl when there seems to be a surplus of single and probably very pretty and educated Canadian Xalimos?

 

[Mahacagalla]

@Mahacagalla I tried listening to the podcast but the accents annoyed me for some reason

It was a hard listen for me too. Lmao

 

[Basic]

Yep.

But it also depends on your generation. The under 25's are doing really good and I feel that Somali boys are finally back in the game. In the UK, its the older generation of girls that probably had a hard time trying to find a guy that fit with their requirements, also having a scarcity mindset doesn't help.


That is sad. A canadian friend of mine was telling me this. A lot of girls are 26+ and single, because of a lack of suitable options.

So seems to me you're a young eligible Somali guy, so why are you dating an Asian girl when there seems to be a surplus of single and probably very pretty and educated Canadian Xalimos?

I agree sis. Being in my early 20s I’m impressed with how the guys in my age range have started to bridge the gap. Don’t have to entertain older guys since there’s better options

 

[Juke]

That is sad. A canadian friend of mine was telling me this. A lot of girls are 26+ and single, because of a lack of suitable options.

So seems to me you're a young eligible Somali guy, so why are you dating an Asian girl when there seems to be a surplus of single and probably very pretty and educated Canadian Xalimos?

You're right ukhti. I must step up for my sisters.

I got room for 3 more on my roster. Send them my way.

 

[Mahacagalla]

Yep.

But it also depends on your generation. The under 25's are doing really good and I feel that Somali boys are finally back in the game. In the UK, its the older generation of girls that probably had a hard time trying to find a guy that fit with their requirements, also having a scarcity mindset doesn't help.


That is sad. A canadian friend of mine was telling me this. A lot of girls are 26+ and single, because of a lack of suitable options.

So seems to me you're a young eligible Somali guy, so why are you dating an Asian girl when there seems to be a surplus of single and probably very pretty and educated Canadian Xalimos?

A lot of these girls tbh don’t ever go out the only time they spend with other ppl are their girlfriends at each other’s house or cafes and think a Somali man is gonna knock down their abos door and scoop them. Introvert culture is pretty bad for a lot of them. Even with that being the case a majority of guys end up with Somali girls here.

 

[Halimak]

You're right ukhti. I must step up for my sisters.

I got room for 3 more on my roster. Send them my way.

No, ditch the Asian and get yourself four Canadian Somalis if you must.



Then I will crown you a true wadaani..