The story probably isnt true. But lool at jiron telling him take on her and her child. I aint raising a bastard kid no way. And if you aint raising other peoples kids....stay away from single mothers
Particularly, if you were never married and have zero children. It would be a mismatch. I would stay away from men with baggage, no offense. But if you are coming to the table with different life experiences I don't see it as working out too well.
The nail in the coffin was this union being outside of marriage and out of her community.