Somali woman from Garowe who married American divorced

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So instead of learning from her bad choices in life, you decide to ignore:francis:

Those who fail to learn from history, are bound to repeat

Somali women are getting divorced from Somali men, left right and centre.

How about you learn from the mistakes of the older generation and learn the importance of taking your role as a man seriously, instead of concerning yourself with the lives of others. It is indeed a feminine trait young man.
 

Tukraq

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Somali women are getting divorced from Somali men, left right and centre.

How about you learn from the mistakes of the older generation and learn the importance of taking your role as a man seriously, instead of concerning yourself with the lives of others. It is indeed a feminine trait young man.
What mistakes did the older generation do?
 

Samaalic Era

QurboExit
Somali women are getting divorced from Somali men, left right and centre.

How about you learn from the mistakes of the older generation and learn the importance of taking your role as a man seriously, instead of concerning yourself with the lives of others. It is indeed a feminine trait young man.

The children still have an identity,support from relatives and the mother can still remarry.:shookgabre:
There's no comparision.

Whos gonna marry ajnabi leftovers? Not to mention how she was relentlessly praising him before he dropped the triple talaq like a saxan of bariis:gaasdrink:
 
What mistakes did the older generation do?

Men who have destroyed their nation, due to murder, looting and maiming. More than 30 yrs later, they can't even fix their nation. Fact.

Parents have moved to their west so that their sons and daughters can have a better life. Yet a lot of sons have decided to stab, steal and sell drugs. Facts.

Why is that you may ask? I'll tell you, because the one person they are meant to look up is too busy chatting rubbish at a marfish or a cafe instead of working and spending time with their family.

We have huge social issues in our community due to men and young boys, yet the guys on sspot would rather police what women do.
Its pathetic, and its getting to the point that i think the reason why they do this is because they can't cope with the state of our community.

Fix up, and if you are a decent brother try and help your fellow Somali brothers.
 
Men who have destroyed their nation, due to murder, looting and maiming. More than 30 yrs later, they can't even fix their nation. Fact.

Parents have moved to their west so that their sons and daughters can have a better life. Yet a lot of sons have decided to stab, steal and sell drugs. Facts.

Why is that you may ask? I'll tell you, because the one person they are meant to look up is too busy chatting rubbish at a marfish or a cafe instead of working and spending time with their family.

We have huge social issues in our community due to men and young boys, yet the guys on sspot would rather police what women do.
Its pathetic, and its getting to the point that i think the reason why they do this is because they can't cope with the state of our community.

Fix up, and if you are a decent brother try and help your fellow Somali brothers.
I rather fix somaliwomen to keep the community up and breathing as these guys are close to hopeless to help or fix
 

Tukraq

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Men who have destroyed their nation, due to murder, looting and maiming. More than 30 yrs later, they can't even fix their nation. Fact.

Parents have moved to their west so that their sons and daughters can have a better life. Yet a lot of sons have decided to stab, steal and sell drugs. Facts.

Why is that you may ask? I'll tell you, because the one person they are meant to look up is too busy chatting rubbish at a marfish or a cafe instead of working and spending time with their family.

We have huge social issues in our community due to men and young boys, yet the guys on sspot would rather police what women do.
Its pathetic, and its getting to the point that i think the reason why they do this is because they can't cope with the state of our community.

Fix up, and if you are a decent brother try and help your fellow Somali brothers.
I’m not even sure those are considered issues, wars happen so what, being social at a cafe with friends is a good thing, I don’t know who would ever stab though:gucciwhat:(I think it’s a uk only thing) and do people still steal when they can scam and be rich:pachah1: also selling drugs isn’t even bad in our culture, there are many respected khat tycoons lol, it’s also not morally wrong and with all this legalization probably legal too, so what exactly are the “social issues”
 
The children still have an identity,support from relatives and the mother can still remarry.:shookgabre:
There's no comparision.

Whos gonna marry ajnabi leftovers? Not to mention how she was relentlessly praising him before he dropped the triple talaq like a saxan of bariis:gaasdrink:

Mate there is a practising woman around my area that has half madow half Somali kids. She still remarried a Somali man.

As much as you want it to be life isn't black and white.

Your point isn't about caring for Somali women, you just have a sick vengeful agenda. For you, its a case of any Xalimo that doesn't live life the way YOU want her to live should be miserable and ostracised. Get a life.

My own cousin married a non Somali. And guess what? my uncle happily gave her away because he was a decent chap and no body has ostracised her, nor is she unhappy. Not everyone has the same path in life, you need to except it.
 
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re those are considered issues, wars happen so what, being social at a cafe with friends is a good thing, I don’t know who would ever stab though:gucciwhat:(I think it’s a uk only thing) and do people still steal when they can scam and be rich:pachah1: also selling drugs isn’t even bad in our culture, there are many respected khat tycoons lol, it’s also not morally wrong and with all this legalization probably legal too, so what exactly are the “social issues”

Being a drug dealer, stabbing your fellow Somali brothers and being an all around qaasaro is not an 'issue'.

The bar is low ladies.
 
I rather fix somaliwomen to keep the community up and breathing as these guys are close to hopeless to help or fix

No, they are not hopeless. I still see a lot of decent ones. There just needs to be a program in which youngsters are taken under their wings. Many of these boys need someone to show them the ropes.
 
@HalimaJ

Don't listen to these geeljirres, I know a Somali lady (highly professional) who was divorced with a kid by a Zambian guy and remarried a Somali (academic) man. She has two kids for the Somali man.
 

Tukraq

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Being a drug dealer, stabbing your fellow Somali brothers and being an all around qaasaro is not an 'issue'.

The bar is low ladies.
“Drug dealer” what’s so bad about that? What drugs, Khat, dope, it’s not bad in our culture and it’s legal everywhere nowadays plus you can make big bank like the millionaire khat tycoons I was mentioning so what do you mean by the bar being “low”, also I’ve never heard of stabbings so that maybe a regional only issue, don’t put an occurrence only in your town as “somali men” also what do you mean by qassaro? Haven’t seen any Mali yougings I would consider a waste but hey that’s me:manny: come with so real issues
 
@Samaalic Era
What do we do about these foreign kids with foreign abtirsi in our lands.

They have always existed.


I know a couple of older gen people with fully Yemeni fathers, whose fathers went to Somalia in the 60s.

My uncle was telling me about a kid with an eritrean father that lived in the area. Guess what? People just minded their business. They were raised with Somalis and where part of society.
 

Tukraq

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They have always existed.


I know a couple of older gen people with fully Yemeni fathers, whose fathers went to Somalia in the 60s.

My uncle was telling me about a kid with an eritrean father that lived in the area. Guess what? People just minded their business. They were raised with Somalis and where part of society.
Say they live there, but be real minding your business isn’t part of our culture, especially back home where they have no filters:pachah1: I know they and there mother got roasted on several occasions :mjlol: and probably gave them a unflattering nickname due to there uhm “predicament”
 

Samaalic Era

QurboExit
@Samaalic Era
What do we do about these foreign kids with foreign abtirsi in our lands.

There are several methods we can go with such as:
  1. Must serve in the Military for a minimum of 12 years to gain citzenship
  2. Move them into on Island off our coast(preferably socotra after we retake) and away from the mainland. There we can put them to good use for whatever we need for Somalia
 
“Drug dealer” what’s so bad about that? What drugs, Khat, dope, it’s not bad in our culture and it’s legal everywhere nowadays plus you can make big bank like the millionaire khat tycoons I was mentioning so what do you mean by the bar being “low”, also I’ve never heard of stabbings so that maybe a regional only issue, don’t put an occurrence only in your town as “somali men” also what do you mean by qassaro? Haven’t seen any Mali yougings I would consider a waste but hey that’s me:manny: come with so real issues

First and foremost we are Muslim. It seems to me the men on sspot only care about the deen, when a woman is doing something unislamic.

Selling khat is haraam and any man that sells it hates his community. Khat is what ruined the men in the Somali diaspora. Men who chew khat find it hard to work as they chew and socialise all night and are then unable to get up in the mornings. Furthermore, whilst it might not be seen as bad in YOUR family, i was raised by men who were deeply disgusted by it because of the points i have mentioned.

Furthermore, young Somali boys in the UK do not really sell Khat, they sell weed, cocaine and other hard drugs. And yes, knife crime is a huge issue. Many Somali hooyos are either burying their child or are coming to terms with the fact that their son murdered someone. Canada is worse as they are shooting each other. Watch vice dixon on youtube. It will give you a clear picture.
 
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