You're all so chronically online, when was the last time you had someone come up to your face and say that shit in real life?
More over you don't have to ever worry about Somali reputation as you had resigned yourself to marry a non-Somali right?
Why worry about a community who has no lack of respect for their own women you vehemently cry about?
Face the facts that Somali diasporan community is in the dirt and the only way out is through assimilating in their respective host countries like I have already mentioned before.