I think he meant about marriage and what route to go. Back home or get married from within the diaspora.
@Keep it a boqol
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Somalis need to stop race mixing
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I think he meant about marriage and what route to go. Back home or get married from within the diaspora.
@Keep it a boqol
If she's fairly religious and grew up in a western societies most likely she'll be more than likely open to moving to a muslim wadan. We, who grew up here know the fitan and are more aware so we see the blessings of a Muslim land and aren't hungry to taste western living. Best thing to do is to look for compatibility more than location.
I agree with the caraba part. They can be living in other parts of the world too but because they grew up there they have a more grounded view of life.
Mashallah inshallah hoyo fiican baa noqaneesa...Ilaahi haa ku xifdiyo.
Btw it's not a sleight. Sometimes the quality of life we are use to in the west makes it difficult living in a less developed country. Not just for the sisters but even for the men. The Gulf is easy for westerners, even Malaysia, Turkey...but Egypt, Somalia etc is a big change especially for someone who hasn't travelled much. But yeah if you have a higher goal and the hereafter is your purpose and taking care of your children's hereafter a wise person will sacrifice temporary luxuries in order to fulfil the obligations Allah has placed upon them as a parent.
People should be allowed to marry whoever they want
I’m starting to think somalis who care about race mixing think their genetics are superior or think that the Somali ethnic group will disappear. It makes me physically cringe
If you combine Somalis with the rest of the custitic group from Ethiopia, Kenya, Somalia, Rwanda etc all through East Africa we are millions.
But yes the culture dying makes me sad. I understand how some Europeans feel now or how Natives feel. But I am happy for people finding love, sometimes you can't find it in the Somali community.
But yes the culture dying makes me sad. I understand how some Europeans feel now or how Natives feel. But I am happy for people finding love, sometimes you can't find it in the Somali community.
It has nothing to do with superior or inferior. When animals are put in the extinction group we feel sorry for them like the Saber Tooth Tiger. I would feel sorry for Somalis disappearing the same way Natives did and many groups. But I think its a diaspora issue more than Somalis in Africa.
It's the language, history, art, music etc. many groups have gone extinct. I would feel the same sadness for any group including white people.
The nomads in Europe were wiped out practically, it's sad. But that's life, adapt or die.
