Somalis need to stop race mixing

[Kun_Ciil]

Recommend in what way? Maku fahmin.

I think he meant about marriage and what route to go. Back home or get married from within the diaspora.

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[Kalsoon]

I think he meant about marriage and what route to go. Back home or get married from within the diaspora.

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If she's fairly religious and grew up in a western societies most likely she'll be more than likely open to moving to a muslim wadan. We, who grew up here know the fitan and are more aware so we see the blessings of a Muslim land and aren't hungry to taste western living. Best thing to do is to look for compatibility more than location.

I agree with the caraba part. They can be living in other parts of the world too but because they grew up there they have a more grounded view of life.

 

[Kun_Ciil]

If she's fairly religious and grew up in a western societies most likely she'll be more than likely open to moving to a muslim wadan. We, who grew up here know the fitan and are more aware so we see the blessings of a Muslim land and aren't hungry to taste western living. Best thing to do is to look for compatibility more than location.

I agree with the caraba part. They can be living in other parts of the world too but because they grew up there they have a more grounded view of life.

Mashallah inshallah hoyo fiican baa noqaneesa...Ilaahi haa ku xifdiyo.

Btw it's not a sleight. Sometimes the quality of life we are use to in the west makes it difficult living in a less developed country. Not just for the sisters but even for the men. The Gulf is easy for westerners, even Malaysia, Turkey...but Egypt, Somalia etc is a big change especially for someone who hasn't travelled much. But yeah if you have a higher goal and the hereafter is your purpose and taking care of your children's hereafter a wise person will sacrifice temporary luxuries in order to fulfil the obligations Allah has placed upon them as a parent.