Somalis need to stop race mixing

I'll admit:

If I married a Puerto Rican between the ages of 18-21 the relationship would have started out because I had a fetish for latinas :mjlol:. Young men are a bit more vocal about the types of women they fetishize.
Yeah thats my age range thats probs why I'm surrounded by odd people. One madow dudes gf called him a monkey in front of me and I remember she asked me about madow mens private parts 😭 These people really are vocal.
 

Taintedlove

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My only interaction with an ajnabi in a romantic sense was a bulgarian boy. I wouldn't even call it romantic, the guy just straight up kept harrassing me until I reported him. No aklaq:obama:
 

Kisame

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Yeah thats my age range thats probs why I'm surrounded by odd people. One madow dudes gf called him a monkey in front of me and I remember she asked me about madow mens private parts 😭 These people really are vocal.

it's easy to date interracially during this time period as well if you live in a liberal and diverse area. During this time period you can pull chicks just based off good looks and vibes. You were right earlier. A lot of mixed people were fetish babies.
 
If you are Somali you are essentially just 1/2 Caucasian and 1/2 black african. If you have kids with an cadaan that child becomes 3/4 cadaan, and if madow that child becomes 3/4 madow. This is why Somalis think that we have weak genes or weak ‘blood’ when the kids usually end up looking way different than our ethnicity. That isn’t what it is, it’s pretty basic math. Remember this. You will dilute yourself out. :ohno:
The Somalia with the straight hair are already 3/4 sxb. my nephew on my brother side is half cadaan he got reddish blonde hair and summer tan. His mom talk about how many times she gets ask where is your children farther from. They got 3 kids no, but they gone have more
 

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Honestly, despite how “patriotic” I can come off when expressing love for my Somali folks, Horners, and Northeast Africans in general… my actual views are pretty pan-human. We’re all human — and in fact, a species so weakly differentiated that you’ll find deeper time-divergences and genetic drift between different chimpanzee groups within a single region of Africa than across our entire species. The phenotypic differences are mostly superficial — down to a few dozen, maybe a hundred alleles at best, in a genome containing millions of such.

People should marry whomever makes them happy, someone with whom they share strong values, goals, and a healthy relationship dynamic. The only point I think might be worth some consideration is something a friend once brought to my attention; the matter of wealth transfer. It is a bit of a conundrum: if you’re a minority in a country and marry into the majority, there’s a good chance your children will assimilate into that majority. Whatever wealth you’ve accumulated—even just a single house—might then exit your community and contribute to the majority’s holdings instead. That’s something worth thinking about, especially if you're extremely wealthy. Maybe the only thing, really. I don’t have any patience for blood-purity or racialist nonsense.

Even then, I’ve met plenty of half-Somali or half-whatever kids who are deeply dialed into one of their parent’s cultures and country — usually because that parent was present, loving, and intentional. If you speak the Af to your kids, take them back to Somali lands semi-regularly, teach them their deen and culture, and if you’re not an abusive prick they grow up resenting… chances are, they’ll care. They’ll feel connected. They’ll want to be involved with Somaliweyn and maybe even give back.

I think blaming your foreign spouse is often just a cover for lacking strength of character — for not being well-rooted in your culture yourself. You feel like you need another hooyo mataalo at minimum as a partner just to ensure the kids aren't level 9000+ hooyo mataalos.
 
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I've recently come to the realisation that those that want to stay within the culture, will... and those that want to venture out should be free to do so.

If Dinka Dengs, Chens, Tongs and Koangs want to marry the daughters of Chinese Dengs, Tongs and Koangs... let them do that

Those are actually Dinka names

:mjlol:
How did you guys end up with East Asian names
 
How did you guys end up with East Asian names

How did they end up with Nilotic names?

Stay woke

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Doctorabdi

A nomad with no true place
Honestly, despite how “patriotic” I can come off when expressing love for my Somali folks, Horners, and Northeast Africans in general… my actual views are pretty pan-human. We’re all human — and in fact, a species so weakly differentiated that you’ll find deeper time-divergences and genetic drift between different chimpanzee groups within a single region of Africa than across our entire species. The phenotypic differences are mostly superficial — down to a few dozen, maybe a hundred alleles at best, in a genome containing millions of such.

People should marry whomever makes them happy, someone with whom they share strong values, goals, and a healthy relationship dynamic. The only point I think might be worth some consideration is something a friend once brought to my attention; the matter of wealth transfer. It is a bit of a conundrum: if you’re a minority in a country and marry into the majority, there’s a good chance your children will assimilate into that majority. Whatever wealth you’ve accumulated—even just a single house—might then exit your community and contribute to the majority’s holdings instead. That’s something worth thinking about, especially if you're extremely wealthy. Maybe the only thing, really. I don’t have any patience for blood-purity or racialist nonsense.

Even then, I’ve met plenty of half-Somali or half-whatever kids who are deeply dialed into one of their parent’s cultures and country — usually because that parent was present, loving, and intentional. If you speak the Af to your kids, take them back to Somali lands semi-regularly, teach them their deen and culture, and if you’re not an abusive prick they grow up resenting… chances are, they’ll care. They’ll feel connected. They’ll want to be involved with Somaliweyn and maybe even give back.

I think blaming your foreign spouse is often just a cover for lacking strength of character — for not being well-rooted in your culture yourself. You feel like you need another hooyo mataalo at minimum as a partner just to ensure the kids aren't level 9000+ hooyo mataalos.
Ultimately, as muslims and as humans we are all children of adam. Allah in the quran calls us "sons of adam" or "children of adam".

I know we humans are quite tribal as it's in our nature, but we don't truly realise that such tribalism means nothing in the end why? When you die, being somali caadan etc means nothing you are mere bones in the grave and will be judged before our lord.

You can die at any moment right now, people don't truly understand how fickle life may be nothing wrong with preferences but it's meaningless ultimately
 

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