I am not opposed to going after Munkar, but we have to be honest with each other.
These wadaads have an extreme interpretation of Hijab, anything that is not Saudi style Jilabiib is considered naked.
As for the parties these are mostly happening in private places and not in the public spheres, most of these are symptoms of bigger problems. (halal made difficult and corruption)
We have far bigger and deadlier issues that plague us that require constant emphasis and attention, these are.
1. Corruption
2. Injustice
3. Xasad
4. Qabyaalad
5. Murder
6. Sixir
The top 2 alone is enough destroy any country. But the good thing is that if you solve just those 2, your 80% there.
When Allah sent Prophets, they dealt with the main problems that society/community had and most of the emphasis was placed on it.
For the people of Shuaib it was corruption, Lut homosexuality, Hud Idolatry and arrogance etc.
What's interesting in Surah Al A'raf when all these nations (including Salih's nation Thamud) were being destroyed, Allah went specially out of his way to state the following for the people of Shuaib, which he didn't for the others.
[7:92]
Those who rejected Shu’aib were ˹wiped out˺
as if they had never lived there
We have the traces of Thamud, Aad, Fircawn and the evidence of destruction that took place in Sodom, but Allah went out of his way to wipe out the traces of the people of Shuaib, their crime? cheating in business (corruption), and unlike the other Prophets, he didn't come with a miracle, reflect on that.
I lived in Somalia for a whole year attending Friday prayers and those topics above that the majority of people agree are the main issues was NEVER SPOKEN about, not even ONCE, yet the topic of Fisq as it related to parties and Xaalimo's not wearing the proper clothing attire was the most common topic, I heard it over 30x times, yet I have never seen a Xaalimo not wearing Islamic attire while there.
This is not the Prophetic way of Dawah, we both live in the West and the fisq that goes on here is far worse, yet the country is stable, there is peace and stability, even the fisq that goes on in the Arab lands and neighbouring African countries are worse, yet they are in a far better condition then us.
That's because those crimes are absolutely nothing in comparison to the multitude of crimes we engage in, there is no point putting the cart before the horse.
The reason why its tough to talk about those real problems is that you will offend the majority of the people, especially your business donors, friends and families.
Ibn Taymiyyah
It is said that Allah allows the just state to remain even if it is led by unbelievers, but Allah will not allow the oppressive state to remain even if it is led by Muslims. And it is said that the world will endure with justice and unbelief, but it will not endure with oppression and Islam.”