Struggling with resentment towards siblings

crem

crem

i feel the same way with my younger brother, i don't want to insult him on here but he has way too many issues, and its annoys me so we constantly clash, im not going to act innocent tho, i can be an extremely annoying as well.

Personally i just stay away from him as much as i can, and it saddens me sometimes because we used to get along so well.
 
Keep it a boqol

Keep it a boqol

“Live as if everything is rigged in your favour”
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What’s going on is your feelings are constantly being pushed to the side and told implicitly that they don’t matter. This is why the resentment is building-you feel that you’re giving a level of patience, accountability and empathy in these disagreements but you’re not receiving the same in return, but blamed. Resentment usually builds when we feel wronged and yours is growing because this has been going on for a while.

How is your relationship with your mom? Maybe try talking to her about it not being heard and blamed and being the scapegoat ?
 
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Shayla

I have to be honest. I don't think you are as innocent as you are making out.

It sound like your younger sibling, mum and older sibling are doing quite a lot at home.

Especially your mum. Miskiin works full time and then comes home to cook for her adult children.

Have some naxaaris for your Hooyo and stop arguing with your siblings. Tbh it seems like you have animosity with all your siblings, not just the younger one.

You are the common denominator here; perhaps you are the problem? Which is why your mum seems to be having a go at you?

Look at your actions. Maybe you have very annoying habits that goad your siblings and then when your siblings finally explode, you act like they are all unreasonable.

I have to be honest; that's the sense I'm getting from all of this.
 
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