Teacher in Somalia marries his student. Macalin habibtiπ€£
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They need safeguarding laws in Somalia, these stories are not cute.
There was a story not long ago, about a teacher, who claimed he 'secretly married' a little girl when she was approximately 11 years old. Her uncles found out and had him arrested and his male clansmen were defending him, of course. There are also countless molestation and rape stories, yes, including little boys who are assaulted.
Even if the age-difference isn't extreme, are you comfortable with sending your child to a school, where an adult can manipulate your child and then claim they 'married her' or 'married him? The power-imbalance is extreme and it's disgusting. Schools are not shopping centres for brides and grooms.
Don't even get me started on the perverts who exchange grades for sex.
I even heard a story where a Somali girl said a dugsi teacher married her in 'secret' and she was his secret wife for years.
I am sick of these disrespectful perverts that hit on their own students, they are dangerous pests that can't control themselves.
- Teachers need to be penalised and arrested if found flirting with students.
- Teachers should not be allowed alone in a classroom with a student.
There was a story not long ago, about a teacher, who claimed he 'secretly married' a little girl when she was approximately 11 years old. Her uncles found out and had him arrested and his male clansmen were defending him, of course. There are also countless molestation and rape stories, yes, including little boys who are assaulted.
Even if the age-difference isn't extreme, are you comfortable with sending your child to a school, where an adult can manipulate your child and then claim they 'married her' or 'married him? The power-imbalance is extreme and it's disgusting. Schools are not shopping centres for brides and grooms.
Don't even get me started on the perverts who exchange grades for sex.
I even heard a story where a Somali girl said a dugsi teacher married her in 'secret' and she was his secret wife for years.
I am sick of these disrespectful perverts that hit on their own students, they are dangerous pests that can't control themselves.
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If this is happening after graduation and he was able to teach other students without being distracted by an erection for one of the students, thereβs no problem.
No shame
Teachers who get with their students, purposefully make time to do this. The average class-size is 25-30 students, teachers don't get a chance to be alone with students. Unless they purposefully isolate the student, by keeping them behind after class or inviting them into office rooms, where they can be alone.
It's all very intentional and there is no accident about it. Everything about such a 'relationship', involves lies, deception, secrets, manipulation and all sorts of haram activity.
LOL
We've been brainwashed, because we don't think teachers should shukansi students?
1. Muslims are supposed to do our work properly, giving one student extra attention is not fair and it's against teaching principles. Who has time to get to know a student personally, when having a full-class of students?
2. Men are not supposed to be alone with women without their mahrem, so no, he can't pull her aside after class alone, or in his office.
3. Muslims are supposed to lower their gaze and it requires a lot of STARING to develop an interest in a student.
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Djokovic
Somali Arab
Itβs not haram to find somebody attractive and how do you know he did that you are making a lot of assumptions he completed his marriage in a halal way say Allahuma baarik and keep it stepping no need for sjw thinkpieces
An adult who cannot control themselves around students, should not be around students. Even gaalo have laws to protect their children in schools, sometimes I wonder who really practises Islam and looks after people.
I wonder if you would be happy if your daughter told you a teacher was staring at her, asking for her number and so forth.
Nomadic lord
Simply better.
I wonder what grades he gave her for this.
You know she got straight A's
Djokovic
Somali Arab
Why you acting like he commited zina or defiled her he liked her so he went about it in the proper way and married her whatβs wrong with that.
Forget this case for a moment, I'm asking in general, are you okay with teachers being allowed to have relationships with their students?
I made a poll, I am really curious about how people feel about this stuff.
Djokovic
Somali Arab
Iβm okay with them marrying students not having βrelationshipsβ
But if you open the door to marriage, it means teachers will start selecting which student they want to marry and approach them. Now combine that with how many men refuse to take 'no' for an answer. On top of that, add in the age-gap and how adults can manipulate the minds of younger people. Not to mention, children who have autism and other issues, so they are even less protected.
Open the door to marriage, open the door to everything.
mohamedismail
Reewin. Lixda Gobol ee Maayland unii leh!
I agree the power dynamic isn't good. Plus a lot of girls may just have a crush on the teacher and it may lead to haram.They need safeguarding laws in Somalia, these stories are not cute.
- Teachers need to be penalised and arrested if found flirting with students.
- Teachers should not be allowed alone in a classroom with a student.
There was a story not long ago, about a teacher, who claimed he 'secretly married' a little girl when she was approximately 11 years old. Her family found out and had him arrested and his male clansmen were defending him, of course. There are also countless molestation and rape stories, yes, including little boys who are assaulted.
Even if the age-difference isn't extreme, are you comfortable with sending your child to a school, where an adult can manipulate your child and then claim they 'married her' or 'married him? The power-imbalance is extreme and it's disgusting. Schools are not shopping centres for brides and grooms.
Don't even get me started on the perverts who exchange grades for sex.
I even heard a story where a Somali girl said a dugsi teacher married her in 'secret' and she was his secret wife for years.
I am sick of these disrespectful perverts that hit on their own students, they are dangerous pests that can't control themselves.
I would personally go as far to say that males should have male teachers and females have female teachers. You can have segregated schools like in the khaleej countries.
Djokovic
Somali Arab
It shouldnβt be normal and I doubt it is but if it happens it happens nothing wrong with it
