Sadly i think a major factor might be most are just easily misled and maybe even naive. He knew about her age and if she was young, it doesnt explicitly state in the video, he could also take advantage of that.
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From what I understood she was in her late 20’s.
Most women these days get married in their late 20s now. No man unless delusional is going to think he’s doing a 27 yr old a favor by marrying her simply because a modern 27 yr old doesn’t feel old nor easily manipulated in feeling this way. If she was ‘older’ probably mid to late 30s.
Would you say that marrying and how your age has an impact on it, is the same for men and women?
Are you saying a late 20’s women has the same SMV as a young lady in her early 20’s?
It doesn’t matter since most women now get married in their late 20s. Due to people’s Peter Pan syndrome, a woman getting married at 21 isn’t as common anymore and when they do, they marry men who are of a similar age. Even if men in their late 20s and early 30s prefer 21 yr olds (which many probably do), they’re not gaining access to them since age gap relationships simply aren’t common as much any more.
Thats probably why redpillers get angry seeing the new trend of women in their early 20s calling late twenties early 30s men ‘uncles’. A 21 yr olds so called higher SMV means nothing if most men marrying in their late 20s and early 30s aren’t even seen as an option by the average 21 yr old. Hence the idea of a 27 yr olds shrugging and having low SMV value is definitely an internet thing.
Let me tell you something that will blow your mind that you’ll disagree with that also ties into this and is an example of how backwards redpill is when it comes to real life trends. Educated women in the West, actually marry at a higher rate than uneducated women. I can provide the statistics if you want. Redpill will say the opposite ect. They’ll say the 21 yr olds who doesn’t have a degree and just stays home is much more likely to be married and has a higher value mate. Not in this economy, since rich men don’t like to shop in the ghetto and if you’re at home unemployed and not in education, you won’t see people. SMV means nothing if it doesn’t translate to real life results. Redpillers are unable to understand the reality on the ground and how many factors impact SMV and actual trends.
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Another major issue redpillers have is not understanding women enough or even social and historical realities. I’ll unpack.
Women actually don’t like huge gaps on average unless there is a big pay off like the women being in poverty herself or if the man is making big bucks or the man is very good looking. Redpillers rely on these extremes that don’t relate to the average individual.
Men’s ages has a huge impact on when women marry, for example, in 1970, the average woman married at 20. But guess what age the men married? At 23! Now that the average man marries at 30, the average woman marries at 28.
Redpilled men are very dumb. They want to exist in a world in which the average man delays marriage until his 30s due to modern notions like ‘finding himself’ ’building confidence’ and ‘gaining sexual experience’ but gets with 20 yr olds.
That doesn’t even happen in Somalia in which 15 yr age gaps are normal because even in Somalia, the average age of a man’s first marriage is in fact early 20s. It’s just that widowed, divorced and polygamous men can marry much younger women later on due to the economic constraints of society, but usually these men’s first marriages are when they’re young.
Another major issue redpillers have is not understanding women enough or even social and historical realities. I’ll unpack.
Women actually don’t like huge gaps on average unless there is a big pay off like the women being in poverty herself or if the man is making big bucks or the man is very good looking. Redpillers rely on these extremes that don’t relate to the average individual.
Men’s ages has a huge impact on when women marry, for example, in 1970, the average woman married at 20. But guess what age the men married? At 23! Now that the average man marries at 30, the average woman marries at 28.
Redpilled men are very dumb. They want to exist in a world in which the average man delays marriage until his 30s due to modern notions like ‘finding himself’ ’building confidence’ and ‘gaining sexual experience’ but gets with 20 yr olds.
That doesn’t even happen in Somalia in which 15 yr age gaps are normal because even in Somalia, the average age of a man’s first marriage is in fact early 20s. It’s just that widowed, divorced and polygamous men can marry much younger women later on due to the economic constraints of society, but usually these men’s first marriages are when they’re young.
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