The rise of Hijabis becoming non hijabis

[Yeri]

So I decided to log back onto my insta after 4 years of being inactive. And I followed many girls I knew from primary and secondary school. I went to schools in an area that was Muslim majority so most of these girls were Muslim and wore hijabs. You can imagine my shock when I saw that the overwhelming majority of them no longer wore hijab and had very revealing outfits, now if I had not known these girls that well then I wouldn't be too concerned. But I was completely shocked by a girl that I have known since I was 5, my hooyo used to go on about how I should be more like her, and she would tell me that she wished that Turks (she was Turkish) would be more serious about Islam. I literally had to check our chat logs to make sure that it was really her, back when I would secretly take my hijab off behind my parents she would always I advise me and now she is posting bikini pics. Now I see how easy it is for someone to lose their iman.

 

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[Yeri]

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[gasara]

Most of the people who started wearing it in middle school stopped wearing it from what I seen. Both the kids that were my age and older yeah (Somali and Arab/South Asians). What I notice is they lose their iman, go party and stuff but then when they reach mid to late 20s they become disillusioned and return back to Islam. But not with hijab part. The only thing that bothers me is that when some of them comeback to the fold they are very judgemental. Based on your history you should not be judging people (both the men and women do it). It’s not only a Muslim thing you can see it in the conservatives in our countries. Very liberal youth to ultra conservative judgmental person when they’re older. It’s annoying. Like why do I have to hear about disparaging comments about a women when 1. You are a women 2. You have done it too.

 

[Qeelbax]

I’m astonished by the number of xalimos wearing fake timo

 

[Aurelian]

I’m astonished by the number of xalimos wearing fake timo

society pressure to have certain hair type.

 

[gasara]

I’m astonished by the number of xalimos wearing fake timo

It’s their real hair just silk pressed.

 

[Yeri]

I’m astonished by the number of xalimos wearing fake timo

Literally the other day I saw a somali girl wearing a wig and I don’t know if it was her head shape but despite the wig being laid properly that shit looked like a helmet. I just don’t think they suit us.

 

[Yeri]

Most of the people who started wearing it in middle school stopped wearing it from what I seen. Both the kids that were my age and older yeah (Somali and Arab/South Asians). What I notice is they lose their iman, go party and stuff but then when they reach mid to late 20s they become disillusioned and return back to Islam. But not with hijab part. The only thing that bothers me is that when some of them comeback to the fold they are very judgemental. Based on your history you should not be judging people (both the men and women do it). It’s not only a Muslim thing you can see it in the conservatives in our countries. Very liberal youth to ultra conservative judgmental person when they’re older. It’s annoying. Like why do I have to hear about disparaging comments about a women when 1. You are a women 2. You have done it too.

This might sound wrong but I believe that some women only start practicing so that have a better chance of finding a husband because most muslim men won’t marry them if they stay the way they are. And you mentioning them becoming judgmental after a past is so real, there was this girl that I met in sixth form in year 12 during independent study, who got knocked up by her boyfriend in year 13. A couple months ago one of my friends shows me insta post of hers, she now is a niqabi and was talking about how women are the majority in hell. We were just so baffled.