I educate myself on racists so that I don't make the mistake of letting a racist into my inner circle. I seriously don't care if you say a slur, If you want to you can.you sound unhinged. you remember my posts…despite not having seen my posts. you mention AA’s…even though we’re talking about an incident in canada. now you’re posting racist “in jokes”…why? for someone who’s totally not racist, you know an awful lot. would you prefer if i said the slur properly? because it’s the only word i can think of to describe a man who is keeping tabs on a random somali girl’s relationship. did me dating an caadan hurt your feelings this much?