This made me sad

[Abdisamad]

How do you wife up a disabled woman and then divorce and leave her as a single mother with kids in a place like Somalia.. Some guys man.. It's so painful

 

[ditto]

This is just so disgraceful. I don’t see enough Somali sheikhs and elders condemning this despicable behaviour as much as they make up stories about Xalimos and Tyrones. Somali society needs to do more so that men are held accountable.

I wish there was greater regulation like how men can only marry multiple wives if they have the financial means to provide for them and ensuring that remarriage is only allowed after a proper divorce with financial security for any children from those marriages.

I assure you in 20 years that sorry excuse of a man that left her with children will be reaching back to them so that his kid will be burdened with taking care of him in his old age. All they know how to do is take and take, but can never give. Men like this deserve to be castrated and forced to live as eunuchs.

 

[Abdisamad]

This is just so disgraceful. I don’t see enough Somali sheikhs and elders condemning this despicable behaviour as much as they make up stories about Xalimos and Tyrones. Somali society needs to do more so that men are held accountable.

I wish there was greater regulation like how men can only marry multiple wives if they have the financial means to provide for them and ensuring that remarriage is only allowed after a proper divorce with financial security for any children from those marriages.

I assure you in 20 years that sorry excuse of a man that left her with children will be reaching back to them so that his kid will be burdened with taking care of him in his old age. All they know how to do is take and take, but can never give. Men like this deserve to be castrated and forced to live as eunuchs.

I would never understand what type of man would marry a disabled woman to impregnate her then leave her with kids all by herself in a poverty ridden war torn place like Somalia, a true man is the provider and protector of his family, this is his sole duty and obligation, I think some men don't understand this, even in Islam we are taught to live by these principles.

 

[Kamaaludeen Al Reewin]

Sad wallahi. These are the consequences of having a failed state. The vulnerable people of society are not taken care of.

I understand why so many young Somalis want to tahriib. If this lady lived in the west, the government would have supported her and her kids.

 

[Abdisamad]

Sad wallahi. These are the consequences of having a failed state. The vulnerable people of society are not taken care of.

I understand why so many young Somalis want to tahriib. If this lady lived in the west, the government would have supported her and her kids.

Wallahi watching her story broke my heart and the little innocent kids playing in the background.. I can imagine such faith is common in Somalia. When fathers fail to provide for their kids then you know we are indeed a failed society.

 

[gasara]

Wallahi watching her story broke my heart and the little innocent kids playing in the background.. I can imagine such faith is common in Somalia. When fathers fail to provide for their kids then you know we are indeed a failed society.

The world really has failed women. Even in the west it’s common for a man to leave his wife when she becomes ill. Society fails women. So how should parents raise their sons so they stop engaging in this behaviour? Cuz we rarely ever hear about women abandoning their kids so why are grown ass men doing.

 

[Abdisamad]

The world really has failed women. Even in the west it’s common for a man to leave his wife when she becomes ill. Society fails women. So how should parents raise their sons so they stop engaging in this behaviour? Cuz we rarely ever hear about women abandoning their kids so why are grown ass men doing.

It's okay to divorce, but the problem is how they completely abandon their kids, like they don't know them anymore after the divorce.